so I'm in the hog house...

[nangiggles]

Yhea ur wrong you should have taken his call and this would never happen.. But going trough your phone, thats pretty bad really hes prolly cheating on you :/

If that happened in my house it would be the husband in the dog house, A. for being a clingy bitch while you said you're going out, no need to interrupt or annoy you when you go out, if anything he could have textedm and B. for going through your phone, WTF kind of ridiculous BS is that
HOWEVER, hubby and I have a very different independent dynamic that most people dont have, when I used to be in tech support I'd go out with a group of all men on my own and arrive home at 4a.m. and he wouldnt say dick, he'd just send me a text before going to bed reminding me to call him if I needed a ride. In your case it seems that it's "your thing" in the sense that you dont even go out anymore, which is kind bad, standing your ground and going back to going out is going to cost some aggravation, just hang in there, still the phone search was uncalled for, he's not your parent.

 

[javaguru]

I was defending womahood...You're a serial marrying type...

I'm just sayin...
"As for myself, I do not hesitate to avow that although the women of the United States are confined within the narrow circle of domestic life, and their situation is in some respects one of extreme dependence, I have nowhere seen woman occupying a loftier position; and if I were asked, now that I am drawing to the close of this work, in which I have spoken of so many important things done by the Americans, to what the singular prosperity and growing strength of that people ought mainly to be attributed, I should reply: To the superiority of their women. "

-De Toqueville

 

[ceo]

BTW, someone send the hubby a pair of red panties.

XXL red lace panties!!!!!!!!111

 

[EnderJE]

my wife is like this,you get tired of this crap quickly, I guess the only difference is he will fuck you,so you have no reason to cheat.

still blows

Maybe he'll fuck you too?

 

[javaguru]

She just doesn't understand men...I wish the best for you Shirlz...

 

[nangiggles]

well it is hard to understand jealous possessive men...

 

[AFeedz]

Yhea ur wrong you should have taken his call and this would never happen.. But going trough your phone, thats pretty bad really hes prolly cheating on you :/

No.

If I tell a boyfriend or whatever I'm going somewhere and will be done at whatever time, I won't accept phone calls until then. There's no reason. You know I'm busy. Picking up a call at that time is enabling.

Call me past that time and I'll pick up no problem, because that's when I told you I'd be done.

There should be no need to check up on someone. If there were, we'd need to break up. Of course, I'm not married so in Shirlz case that doesn't apply.

 

[AFeedz]

I dont think you were wrong though, Shirlz.

Men can hang out with women and vice versa. My best guy friend is married. We only hang out alone, once and a while around my friends (like twice a year maybe), never around his and never with his wife. We were friends for years before he got married, and he's been with the girl since we met on and off...but I didn't meet her til the wedding!.... and I waited til I was drunk. Lol

She'd try to meet me, I'm sure bc she was jealous or suspicious that we hang out alone for years and shed never met me. But every time he'd invite me somewhere shed be, I'd pass bc I feel no need help her jealousy.

I guess it sounds shady but me and him have never done a thing with each other. Occasionally we talk about sex but we've never even kissed so no big deal. His wifey deals, or at least I've never heard she has a big problem with it. That's how it should be. People can be friends. If your husband has a problem with it, it's his problem IMO.

I wouldn't stop being friends with someone for someone else, especially since he has no valid reason. I'd reconsider if he had a reason worth hearing out.

 

[EarthRider]

No.

If I tell a boyfriend or whatever I'm going somewhere and will be done at whatever time, I won't accept phone calls until then. There's no reason. You know I'm busy. Picking up a call at that time is enabling.

Call me past that time and I'll pick up no problem, because that's when I told you I'd be done.

There should be no need to check up on someone. If there were, we'd need to break up. Of course, I'm not married so in Shirlz case that doesn't apply.

i agree with afeedz on this one

well my wife and i have been married for five years. I mean, I will call her while she is out even if it's in her time of said being out. but it's not like i check in on her, i would only call if i needed something. but i guess neither of us are trying to prove something or are the jelous type.

both myself and my wife could get away with an affair prety easily we are that trusting. i never care what she does

but again, when i married Melissa I never went into it thinking i control her now. we are still two individuals. if she wants to do something and i am home and not working, be my guest and do it.

 

[bigpokey]

all the horny posts...sayin hubby's hot until he opens his mouth and ruins it...poastin semi-nude pics...going out/hangin with other dudes...if the situation was reversed...?

gzus id fukn love to see shirlz phataz swallowin a thong