so I'm in the hog house...

[EarthRider]

Sorry, shrizl but you asked for people's opinions and i think everyone is just being honest in how they personally feel in the matter.

Personally, i cant imagine leaving my home (be it day or night) for 4 hrs and telling my husband "don't fucking call me". But i'm not you, and Chris isn't Greg. To me, it says something about the current status of your relationship. Just my opinion.

agreed

i was going to say, i doubt Chris would call you non stop and drive you nutz too while you were out

 

[ceo]

It's interesting how the women are all "yeah! it's his fucking problem! You go girl!"

And the men are either siding with Greg or trying to see it from both sides.

Of course this should go without saying, but for those who are n00ber than others, smurf is obviously lumped in with the men as usual (not just because of her penis either).

 

[smurf2]

lol thanks Brian!

 

[youpissmeoff]

omg...i hate the telephone...i call once, i leave no message and maybe i follow up with one text...that's it...regardless of who i am trying to get in contact with or why.

I do it the other way around. I text and if they don't follow up, I will call if it is really important but in general, I don't use the phone for calls. Just txt and email.

I would have sent a txt saying sup ngro. She would have wrote back and said, I am drunk and have a dudes dick in my mouth. I would have wrote back, brush your teeth before coming to bed.

Actually, shoe on the other foot, I would never take her calls when out of country. just reply to her txt.

 

[zwhit]

Bill speaks the truth

 

[shirlene29]

oh wow...you think the current status of the relationship is a little stressed?
I'll go over non relationship stress for a moment

neck injury/pain, employment downgrade, 4 kids..two of which are teenagers, money stress, home refi, Im being sued, and my 26 yr old brother in law lives with us...with his siamese mix cat and a dilemma about whether or not to go back to college
and yeah...I did ask for peoples opinions..some Ive seriously considered and gave me insight in both directions


I have always said there's three sides to every story and recognize that my version of it is going to have a skewed perception...Im not unrealistic believe it or not

but some people have some serious reading comprehension problems judging by some of the rhetoric
and to be fair...no one knows how much I have or havent told both in backround and the event at hand

its interesting to me that people want to keep beating down how wrong I was when I had already said things were smoothed over...in as much as..my husband doesnt want to talk about it and has decided its a non issue

I was also called out by someone I do trust that I knew what his response would be, right or wrong and I did it anyway so Im responsible in my part of it

I get it peeps...no need to take a shot at my character or beat a dead horse

got it..trashy behavior, trashy person and a shitty spouse

 

[bigpokey]

thank you YPMO bringin the real shit once again..i mean really i see it as blatant disrespect for your marriage/husband/family/kids, u actually got in the car with this guy(alone).. that ur husband doesn't like, and not only were u with a guy that ur husband doesn't like under the influence of alcohol, but you ignored his call while you were bein a fuck up, and then to top that off you blamed him for you ignoring the call... so basically you're all like "fuk i need 'shirl' time fuk my bitch ass kids wantin to grow up in a stable home those lil shit fucks walk in on me poopin and showerin"

i can guarantee this.. the EF peeps that have good marriages wouldn't be in this dumfuk situation.. YPMO's wife wouldn't have done that shit, Mitch's wife wouldn't, ceo's wife, Plunk's wife, Er's wife, smurf already chimed in...

If you didn't ride with the guy to the bar by yourself it doesn't matter you're still a complete fuck up im not goin back to read through the thread for the details

 

[youpissmeoff]

oh wow...you think the current status of the relationship is a little stressed?
I'll go over non relationship stress for a moment

neck injury/pain, employment downgrade, 4 kids..two of which are teenagers, money stress, home refi, Im being sued, and my 26 yr old brother in law lives with us...with his siamese mix cat and a dilemma about whether or not to go back to college
and yeah...I did ask for peoples opinions..some Ive seriously considered and gave me insight in both directions


I have always said there's three sides to every story and recognize that my version of it is going to have a skewed perception...Im not unrealistic believe it or not

but some people have some serious reading comprehension problems judging by some of the rhetoric
and to be fair...no one knows how much I have or havent told both in backround and the event at hand

its interesting to me that people want to keep beating down how wrong I was when I had already said things were smoothed over...in as much as..my husband doesnt want to talk about it and has decided its a non issue

I was also called out by someone I do trust that I knew what his response would be, right or wrong and I did it anyway so Im responsible in my part of it

I get it peeps...no need to take a shot at my character or beat a dead horse

got it..trashy behavior, trashy person and a shitty spouse

Man.. my recent blow up, really short separation with the bride, happened in a very similar situation. I had a bad back, my brother is living with us (but in a guest house),and she sent a txt to me by accident that was meant for a friend which made some comment about money.

I text back in my shitty mood and boom - she was gone for a week. Was a pretty nice break really. We had some decent sex since (quality - not quantity and not until my back felt better).

 

[shirlene29]

which is the real reason I didn't call back...I am stressed to the absolute max right now..and would have been a needless bitch
and to tell the truth was gonna be grounded when I got home even if I had gone shopping or some shit because I was gone for four hrs..it didnt matter what I did or didn't do...I wasn't six inches from him when he wasn't busy...
I wish I was being melodramatic, but Im not

 

[bigpokey]

which is the real reason I didn't call back...I am stressed to the absolute max right now..and would have been a needless bitch
and to tell the truth was gonna be grounded when I got home even if I had gone shopping or some shit because I was gone for four hrs..it didnt matter what I did or didn't do...I wasn't six inches from him when he wasn't busy...
I wish I was being melodramatic, but Im not

^wow..^wow... and now you sound like fukin java "i didn't 'really' choke and beat the bish cause obviously i wouldve ripped her throat out with my 600lb grip strength and the bish also stole money from me anyways and you guys just don't understand those mugshots were actually glamour shots but the photographer didn't watch the youtube i showed her about photography!"