Anybody with commitment issues here?

[princesa]

Apparently I have commitment issues according to one of my friends, we recently reconnected. Btw, nothing happened we are just friends...

This is news to me, I had no idea. For example, we were talking about food and I said 'MAYBE I'll make it for you one day'. I don't like to make plans unless I know for sure..There is no such thing as a sure thing, right?! Right! He says that I use the word 'maybe' quiet often and that's usually a commitment phobia type of thing..i don't know wtf..

I don't think that I have commitment issues, I'm just cautious. I think I overdo it sometimes. Anyhow, I keep thinking about what he said and if there is any truth to that

 

[calveless wonder]

He's right

 

[nimbus]

dude is saying whatever he can to get it in

 

[princesa]

He's right

really??

ahahhaa


Please elaborate, I promise I'll listen

 

[calveless wonder]

I'll let you sit on that one for a bit

 

[ceo]

He's cheating on you.

 

[princesa]

dude is saying whatever he can to get it in

Yeah but that wouldn't get him in though

 

[calveless wonder]

I'm the opposite, I tend to overcommitt and then don't follow through.

 

[ceo]

Yeah but that wouldn't get him in though

can I get in?

 

[princesa]

He's cheating on you.

lolol

He is a cheater for sure.


We used to work together. One night at a xmas party we made out, I believe that I was drugged because I don't remember most of it and I only had one drink. So, we were making out for over an hr on 74th and columbus on a snow night..like who does that? Not me.

Anyhow, he just came out of a 7yr relationship. Not surprised they broke up, he would cheat on this girl left and right. Not what I'm looking for.