Alright, I really didn't want to post this, I was going to post under a different handle to save face, but ah who cares.
I am almost 21, just broke up with my girlfriend of 4.5 years (started dating her when I was 16) last month; we were in talks of marriage and everything, finally we both just snapped after to many arguments though. So I have been out of the dating circuit for a while, actually, I never was in it. I mean a 16 year old guy is never really too suave with the ladies.
OK, I met some really hot girl on my job (I do live computer technical support on campus), some how I got around to saying 'we should go out sometime', I didn't think she'd even respond, but she did "OK, when?" I said friday, blah blah blah, it caught me off guard.
Now the dilemna. I am really fucking nervous. I am to the point where I am considering calling her and telling her I can't make it. I'm afraid we will go out and it'll go really fucking bad, like we won't even be talking. I don't really party, ever, so I couldn't just take her to some social event so it's not like we are talking. SO dinner and a movie is pretty much the itinerary. Any advice from guys or ladies, on what to do on the first date, how to keep conversations going, and not feel awkward, or just general advice. thanks!
I am almost 21, just broke up with my girlfriend of 4.5 years (started dating her when I was 16) last month; we were in talks of marriage and everything, finally we both just snapped after to many arguments though. So I have been out of the dating circuit for a while, actually, I never was in it. I mean a 16 year old guy is never really too suave with the ladies.
OK, I met some really hot girl on my job (I do live computer technical support on campus), some how I got around to saying 'we should go out sometime', I didn't think she'd even respond, but she did "OK, when?" I said friday, blah blah blah, it caught me off guard.
Now the dilemna. I am really fucking nervous. I am to the point where I am considering calling her and telling her I can't make it. I'm afraid we will go out and it'll go really fucking bad, like we won't even be talking. I don't really party, ever, so I couldn't just take her to some social event so it's not like we are talking. SO dinner and a movie is pretty much the itinerary. Any advice from guys or ladies, on what to do on the first date, how to keep conversations going, and not feel awkward, or just general advice. thanks!