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Would you kill someone for a friend?

Itsadeepburn

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Here is the story behind this question. My bro has been dating this girl for 3 years....he disappeared for a while because she didnt like him coming out with his bros.....i managed to hang out with him alot, when she was at work...he is a great friend, and always will be. Well she has been treating him like shit, and he wants to break it off with her, but he has only been with one girl, and he loves her alot. He never uses a PC except to order parts for his Trans AM...he made her delete her myspace because alot of guys were hitting her up. Well i saw her on a friends page....good ol worthless myspace you can find anything....and this dumb bitch made her whole page out about this dude she is fvcking and dating and inlove with. And its not him...and she is going to the beach with my bro for the weekend, he fvcking got them a hotel so they could have a weekend alone. And she told him she loved him infront of me the other day.....And she is with another dude. Tomorrow morning im gonna be waiting at his house with the page pulled up, so she can explain to him why she is dating another guy, and yelling at my bro for going out on the weekends, cause his crazy friends are gonna hook him up with another girl. She is burning in hell tomorrow, i have never liked this girl. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Im so mad right now. Alright im outta here.......stay classy
 
What you don't have drama in your life, so seek drama in others?

Drama queen. Let him deal with it. She can date whoever she wants. She ain't married. She can even tell him to FO and change her # and dump him in 2 seconds.

Do you live in a trailer park?
 
Trailer park? Nah.......And i apologize for the drama, i really hate it....but she has been leading this dude on for years, and i could care less about myself...but when it comes to my bros, it just pisses me off. This dude isnt some normal bro that goes out and parties and picks chicks up in the club....hes been in one relationship and had sex with one girl....and he has been a friend of mine for about 10 years. Just pisses me off. But hey if that makes me a drama queen then i am guilty. Next time i show concern for another human being ill take it elsewhere....
 
Itsadeepburn said:
Trailer park? Nah.......And i apologize for the drama, i really hate it....but she has been leading this dude on for years, and i could care less about myself...but when it comes to my bros, it just pisses me off. This dude isnt some normal bro that goes out and parties and picks chicks up in the club....hes been in one relationship and had sex with one girl....and he has been a friend of mine for about 10 years. Just pisses me off. But hey if that makes me a drama queen then i am guilty. Next time i show concern for another human being ill take it elsewhere....

Let him deal with it. You cana lso look at it as 'what is he doing with a two-timing woman?'.

You're like that nosy gf's gf. I've seen gay guys less of a drama queen than you. She's his gf, not yours.
 
Itsadeepburn said:
So you are saying that i should turn my back on it, and let her continue to play my bro like that? Would you do that to a bro?

I wouldnt. I think any friend who is worth a damn would let you know if your girl is fucking around.

I mean, what if the dude gets some STD from her cheating?

Not cool.
 
anybody I consider a friend is like my family,its something I dont throw around often,so yes for a friend id kill someone if the situation required it
 
Well i am cooled off now....and im certainly not going to be waiting there like a retard....BUT......he needs to know, he talked to me about her the other night, and said that its rough right now, but he loves her and knows that she will stop being so jealous, and i was like hey man, i dont like her style, but if you love her, then stay with her, and try to work it out and that i wont go against your decision...I think that he deserves to know this, so he can go ahead and start moving on. And yeah STDs are another thing......why should his life get messed up over some dumb broad? I can live with some ridicule on an internet site, but i wouldnt feel right about myself if i let him get screwed over and i knew the whole time.
 
Itsadeepburn said:
Well i am cooled off now....and im certainly not going to be waiting there like a retard....BUT......he needs to know, he talked to me about her the other night, and said that its rough right now, but he loves her and knows that she will stop being so jealous, and i was like hey man, i dont like her style, but if you love her, then stay with her, and try to work it out and that i wont go against your decision...I think that he deserves to know this, so he can go ahead and start moving on. And yeah STDs are another thing......why should his life get messed up over some dumb broad? I can live with some ridicule on an internet site, but i wouldnt feel right about myself if i let him get screwed over and i knew the whole time.

Let him know.

Let him to deal with it.

End of story.
 
"love" her? and she's "cheating" on him?

Aw, immature juvenile "love".

Tell him, then concentrate on your own life. Assuming you have one.

The BEST thing for him is to dump her. She's not the one for him. Big deal. People move on. Unless he wants to waste more time with her, and be another single divorced loser at age 35 like all the other people who had to learn the hard way.

Tell him, then let him decide. You're not your brothers keeper, unless you wear panties and revel in drama shit.
 
Razorguns said:
"love" her? and she's "cheating" on him?

Aw, immature juvenile "love".

Tell him, then concentrate on your own life. Assuming you have one.

The BEST thing for him is to dump her. She's not the one for him. Big deal. People move on. Unless he wants to waste more time with her, and be another single divorced loser at age 35 like all the other people who had to learn the hard way.

Tell him, then let him decide. You're not your brothers keeper, unless you wear panties and revel in drama shit.
you're the fucking male version of bikinimom.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
you're the fucking male version of bikinimom.
Fuckin A

Itsadeepburn said:
Yeah thats how its gonna be......i just needed to vent.
Don't listen to Razorguns' bullshit. He's liking to create his own little drama here.
I'd tell your bro.
 
what does this have to do with the title of the thread? would you actually "kill" someone over anything like this? i sure as hell wouldn't
 
if youre really his friend then he has to know, end of story. the amount of evidence you collect and how you go about telling him comes down to how good a friend he is, how good a friend you are, how you think he will cope with each of the methods of telling him, and how big a drama queen you are

also, this is a great opportunity for blackmail. is she rich? ;)
 
itsadeepburn: mind your own biddness.
 
All basic drama about cheating on him aside, because if this is his "first" he will get hurt true enough, and it is something he'll just have to deal with himself because the fact is, he will be hurt many more times in his life.......However, you do need to tell him because this is something that directly concerns his health and wellbeing. In 1997 I had a buddy that was dating a branch manager of a prominent dating service for about 8 months. She was his second piece of ass and HOT as hell! I was used to seeing her out with a different guy everytime I saw her (She did happy hour at my friends martini bar.), granted her office was across the street from the bar so I figured she was just shmoozing prospective clients. Anyway, turns out she WAS the dating service.......I found this out after a girl I was givin' the MOJO to at the bar saw her come in and walk right past her without acknowledging her. This pissed my "girl" off, as she proceeded to tell me about this insane little freakfest she had with my bro's girl and 3 other people about a month prior. If that wasn't enough, it turns out that one of the guys involved in the freakfest was a local sportscaster with whom she had been having a relationship (of sorts) with for the past 5-6 months. I was in the same spot you are, and I decided to tell him. Not because I didn't want him to be hurt (like I said, he will have to learn to deal with hurt on his own.) and she was a slut. I told him because of the health factor and STD's. He was upset and hurt and broke it off with her right away. He thanked me, got tested and all was well....................................Until 2002! He got a call from her and was informed that she was indeed HIV positive! She was doing the right thing by calling people that she had been with, (within a certain time period) to advise them so they could be tested. Well he got tested and did in fact come back clean! Turns out she contracted this from an investment banker client of hers approx. a year after my bro broke it off with her, she found this out while making her phone calls. Sorry this response is so long but you can see why it is important to at least advise him of the situation and let him deal with that on his own, but he does have the right to know! You see how many people just one idiot affected, or almost infected.......Cuz if she didn't walk into the bar when she did I probably would have slept with the girl from the "freakfest" and been in the same boat!

Just one man's opinion......Again sorry this is so long.

MOJO
 
print the page off...send it to him in the mail anonymously.

And don't be a dick by pulling a "I told you so"
 
Yeah the title of this thread was a little much.......again my bad. I just take serious offense when someone is messing with my bros....Im not talking about people that i throw drinks back with at the bar, im talking about the guys that i have been friends with since i was little, the ones that i call "brothers". If a friend was actually in danger i might off someone, but other than that, the most i would do would be help hide the body. Well it turns out he already knew, but he still doesnt know what to do. He didnt want anyone to know that he was getting played and he was embarrassed so he kept it to himself. I just told him that makes her feel like she has more control over him, and that its all up to him, and that if he needed to talk to someone i would listen, but i told him i wouldnt bring it up again, cause he was seriously embarrassed. Well thanks for all the good input, i was a tad pissed last night. Guess it sorta felt like the girl was messing with my family.
 
I'm noticing how....everyone says they hate drama yet few actually do something to avoid it. Biggest cliche of the century.
 
I'm confused about the part about going to clubs..........What clubs?? We don't have "clubs" in DE!!

:lmao:
 
Itsadeepburn said:
Yeah the title of this thread was a little much.......again my bad. I just take serious offense when someone is messing with my bros....Im not talking about people that i throw drinks back with at the bar, im talking about the guys that i have been friends with since i was little, the ones that i call "brothers". If a friend was actually in danger i might off someone, but other than that, the most i would do would be help hide the body. Well it turns out he already knew, but he still doesnt know what to do. He didnt want anyone to know that he was getting played and he was embarrassed so he kept it to himself. I just told him that makes her feel like she has more control over him, and that its all up to him, and that if he needed to talk to someone i would listen, but i told him i wouldnt bring it up again, cause he was seriously embarrassed. Well thanks for all the good input, i was a tad pissed last night. Guess it sorta felt like the girl was messing with my family.
ur a good guy man
 
I wish some of my friends had told me about an ex. It would have saved me from driving like a mad man to catch her.

I could have saved some gas money, bail money, fine money, and loss of sleep.
 
gotmilk said:
I wish some of my friends had told me about an ex. It would have saved me from driving like a mad man to catch her.

I could have saved some gas money, bail money, fine money, and loss of sleep.

Exactly.

Bros let bros know things kind of things.
 
Lol at Jenscat......Philly isnt to far though.....Other than that the "clubs" around here consist of 5 girls on the dance floor and a bunch of weirdos standing around. Bubbas has a beer pong table so we frequent that alot. Im not gonna get involved in his business, i just let him know, and he knows that he can talk to me anytime if he needs to.
 
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