Would you date a girl 10 years older than you?

[krishna]

I didnt read the entire thread but when I was 31, I started dating a guy who was 19. (lol shut up). I think it all depends on the individual, not just their age. We dated for over 2 years and it was pretty good overall - with both of us knowing that we werent looking for anything like marriage/co-habitating/etc. it was pretty casual and relaxed, but still exclusive. anywho, eventually when the newness wears off, there will likely be issues that come up as a result of age difference

Do you think she'd dump me? That would save me a lot of trouble if it wasn't working out.

 

[alien amp pharm]

If it were me, I'd be honest with her and tell her I'd like to DATE her and see what happens.
Worst thing you could do is fall into a relationship too soon.
If she is not cool with that then walk away.

 

[krishna]

If it were me, I'd be honest with her and tell her I'd like to DATE her and see what happens.
Worst thing you could do is fall into a relationship too soon.
If she is not cool with that then walk away.

Ya I hear ya. Doesn't sound like she's down with me dating other girls though.

 

[manny78]

Ya I hear ya. Doesn't sound like she's down with me dating other girls though.

Is the sex any good ? if yes then why would you date other girls ?

 

[H_T_]

Ya I hear ya. Doesn't sound like she's down with me dating other girls though.

well, then here's what you do: don't fucking tell her......make up some shit like you deliver food to seniors in your free time.

 

[Mr. Black]

How's her body?Any saggin going on?

 

[H_T_]

is she american?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Ya I hear ya. Doesn't sound like she's down with me dating other girls though.

You are either dating, or in a relationship.

Dating means you still see other people IMO.
I'd never be in a relationship without dating someone for a long time first.

Don't play her game and allow her to have your balls. Continue to "date" but make it clear you are not in a committed relationship until you are sure it's what you want.

If you cave in now, she'll control you forever.

 

[medical]

How's her body?Any saggin going on?

Not a fair question: OF Course there is some sagging going on....plus she's had a kid. The thing is if the sagging is minimal then you know she will hold up with age. I've seen (on NUMEROUS occasions!) a total hottie have a kid at 26 and be a complete and utter lard ass by 30. Look back at the pic of my 54 yo gf....she has had 3 children, and she is pretty damn tight for her age. In my opinion she is hotter now than when she was 35.
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b138/94bubf/lisaLL.jpg
(BTW, she is sitting here beside me in the office right now, and in a few minutes I'm going to bend her over the desk.....because she just asked me to and I'm accomodating like that!)

 

[Mr. Black]

OF Course there is some sagging going on....plus she's had a kid:

That's be reason enough for me to bail... Assuming the above were true, hopefully her hot face would make up for the sagging. Congrats though if you caught yourself a hot cougar