When I was 28, I would have been all up in a hot 38 y/o. . .no doubt. I can't imagine it would have turned into any kind of serious relationship, though.
Has she been married before?? Does she have any kids??
I'm 28 and she's 38. She's freakin' gorgeous, but what about as the years go by? She made it quite clear that she is not looking for a fling, so I'd have to be serious if I made the jump, unless I wanted to be an asshole and totally screw her over by leading her on (I'm not a guy who would do that, at least not on purpose). Damn...what to do.