What's the nicest way to tell woman to lose few extra pounds?

[nimbus]

she's underweight not overweight lmao

damn son you like em thick

 

[gonelifting]

Right before you have sex with her, say you want to tie her up. After she's all tied up at all corners of the bed, in walks "Dr. Feldman the Liposuction Dr." Honey, this is an intervention...

Then hit her in the head with a bat, so she doesn't feel any pain.

 

[canadianhitman]

1. Get a CD of tuba music loaded up in the stereo.

2. Use the remote to unpause it every time she starts walking around your pad.

It was funny on Family Guy.

 

[gonelifting]

Nicest way?

"You're fat. please?"

 

[velvett]

Velvett I think you took that the wrong way.

Men are VERY visual creatures so you can't be angry with a man for this point of view. Actually I feel that he should be commended for this approach. Not a lot of men would even go on a date with a woman unless he wanted to jump her bones from the word go, let alone have a relationship to see if his attraction could grow.

Women are the ones who warm slowly. Men decide sometimes in a nanosecond (based on a woman's physical appearance alone) whether or not they would even give a female the time of day regardless of what a stellar human being she is.

You can't be upset with Perkele for being honest.

Who's angry?

Why be involved with someone that is not your type and expect them to change so you can stand to look at them and be aroused?

I don't see the logic in that.

If she wasn't buzzing up around him after being divorced - he'd not give her the time of day beyond the friendship that already existed between them.

He should cut her loose and find another girl that suits his needs.

I am at most expressing my opinion - no one has to argree with me or take my advice.

 

[bw1]

Few = +20lbs



When you find a woman who has more than her share of inner beauty, yet bit too chubby to get you really turned on. Then you really need to know how to tell her where's the problem, in the nicest way possible.

look fatty...hit the gym

 

[velvett]

I disagree.

Men are visual and for the most part superficial in this regard. A man needs to have all of his senses aroused before he will want to pursue emotional intimacy with a woman whereas women need to have their emotional needs stimulated/met before they will want to become physical - herein lies one of the biggest sources of frustration and miscommunication between the sexes. Strangely enough we both want the same thing. Problem is we (by design) approach from completely opposite angles.

He's not into thick chicks and she is one, he said himself that he's giving her a chance because she's showing interest in him, he knows her and she's a nice person.

This men are visual hoopla doesn't apply when the man chooses to be involved with someone that he already knows he is not attracted to.

It's insanity.

Imagine a man telling you that you have to gain 50lbs and dye your hair blond because he can't get aroused looking at you otherwise and then belittles your looks because of his own choices.

My critism is not with what someone likes or dislikes it is for an individual to knowingly make a choice that they don't like and then expects someone else to take responsibilty in fixing it for them.

 

[nimbus]

get out your camera and say you want to take her picture. Then look through the viewfinder, frown, and take a few steps backs. Keep doing this until you're about 100 yards away.

 

[perkele]

Perk, take it as I'm saying it, respect the woman enough to say to her, "I think you're a wonderful person and would hate to do anything to ruin our friendship but I respect you far to much to lead you on in any way, you're just not the physical type I go for." If she asks what you mean, then tell her you go for slimmer ladies. That way you're being dead honest, the decision as to whether to lose weight or not is entirely up to her and she can also decide how she feels about how much you value appearance. She might think you're too shallow and will just back off. Either way, problem solved.

It's been my experience that trying to sugar coat honesty backfires in the end.

To be dead honest would probably be the best thing.

 

[Bikini Mod]

To be dead honest would probably be the best thing.

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