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What's the hardest thing you have had to endure in life?

Stuff I would never post here. Which is saying something considering how open I've been about some of the rough areas of my life.
 
I agree...kind of depressing thread but im glad i read it cuz i know im not the only one who went through some rough times but here we go....i got a couple...they were equally hard to endure...

Finding my mom dead on lunch break when i was a teen

finding out my girlfriend of 10 years was bangin my brother behind my back

or bein addicted to h and coke for years and losing everything leadin me to live on the streets

Pretty rough shit like im sure others have been through but coming out a better person and moving on shows wat kinda person u are and makes u stronger..
 
Stuff I would never post here. Which is saying something considering how open I've been about some of the rough areas of my life.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and why would you give a shit about what anyone on this bored thinks of you?
 
When I saw puds posted I thought he was going to talk about keeping his gunt out of the way while he put his shoes on. For 30 minutes.
 
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and why would you give a shit about what anyone on this bored thinks of you?


Save a couple of people who I consider real friends, I DON'T care what people think. My not posting the worst parts of my life here has nothing to do with caring what they think....it's just none of their damned business.
 
Save a couple of people who I consider real friends, I DON'T care what people think. My not posting the worst parts of my life here has nothing to do with caring what they think....it's just none of their damned business.



This...


the truly bad stuff I don't talk about to pretty much anyone let alone a fuckin message board.
I see anti depressants getting some serious negative comments in here...

having gone through severe acute PTSD, anti anxiety meds and an SSRI were the only thing that allowed me to talk, at all, I couldn't move until I was doped up enuff to NOT care. Therapy for it actually got me past it, but without the meds I wouldn't have been able to even participate.....btw, war didnt cause the PTSD, and I won't discuss that either.
 
#1, leaving my ex-GF in 2006... Lived together for 9 years, and I really cared for her, but it was a very unhealthy relationship. She was also my first, and I was her first that lasted longer than a summer. BUT, it was the best thing I ever did. We're now friends, and I'm now happily married, in a GREAT relationship, and I wish I had known how to get out 8 years earlier.

#2, live through 1988... January, did a dumb thing; lied on a credit application and got arrested after a perfect record, perfect grades, and perfect family history. March, my mother's health worsened (she was a smoker, and in a wheelchair since '85 when I was 17), and she fell into a coma in the County Hospital. June, house foreclosed because I couldn't make the payments anymore with my mother in the hospital, and me a total wreck unable to keep things together. July, house exploded & Burned down, just after I was able to sell it in time not to lose it to the bank. I had rented it back on July 1 from the buyers, and then the fire happened. Lost 90% of my stuff, no insurance. September, my mother died in the County Hospital after 6 months in & out of a coma. Christmas, lost my best friend after I did something foolish with his girlfriend (totally unplanned, and I didn't do anything physical, but I was very stupid and deserved to lose the friend). During the year 1988, I got totally out of being fit, and lost 55 lbs in 6 months. But the moral of the story is I never gave up, and today, I wouldn't trade my life for anyone's. Best wife in the world, no serious money problems (and that's not easy to say, with the economy the way it is), and I have worked hard enough to be in better physical shape than ever in my life, and I'm 42.

Why did I rate leaving my ex-GF as #1 when my #2 was so bad? Simple. I had the guts to do it at my own will when I left my ex, but I had no choice or way to change most of the 1988 events. Anyone can get lucky or unlucky, but it takes guts to take action that hurts really bad, only on the hope that you're going to get a gain from it later on.

Charles
 
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