What's the hardest thing you have had to endure in life?

[jnevin]

This past year was a bit of a hiccup.

 

[ponyfitness]

Opening my Christmas presents on Boxing Day in a detox centre we had taken my mother to on Christmas Eve night. Among other alcoholic related incidents.

 

[wootoom]

Besides this thread

fvck, that's all I got.

The hardest thing for you was having to deal with your geighness

 

[Scotsman]

For me is divorce...I'm struggling to deal with it especially not being with my kids all the time. Sucks they have to deal with this when they are older. Time heals all wounds I guess. It's been 2 years going through this shit and I don't think it's ever going to get better...

Just keep your chin up bro. Think of the positives, you will have more time to spend with them, the divorce will come to a conclusion(even though I'm sure it seems otherwise), You'll be able to help them deal with it. Just make sure you stay strong for them and for yourself. Take heart in the fact that there is a light at the end of the tunnel even if you can't see it yet.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[trex74]

Wow, I am so sorry to hear how much people are hurting...it's not easy this life business. Stay strong everyone.

 

[wootoom]

Just keep your chin up bro. Think of the positives, you will have more time to spend with them, the divorce will come to a conclusion(even though I'm sure it seems otherwise), You'll be able to help them deal with it. Just make sure you stay strong for them and for yourself. Take heart in the fact that there is a light at the end of the tunnel even if you can't see it yet.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Thanks bro...I don't want to take anti-depressants...i like having emotion them fucking things make me a zombie. Having my kids is my anti-depressant and something to look forward to..It's the love part that is killing me...I can't move past it..

 

[canadianhitman]

A serious bout of depression that damn near ruined me about 12 years ago.

 

[canadianhitman]

And I agree with Woot...unless you absolutely HAVE too, stay the hell away from antidepressants. I beat my depression, which was pretty bad, without any pills; a lot can be accomplished with lifestyle changes / new and exciting challenges.

 

[ortiz34]

You are going to be alright Wootoom, everyday gets better, little by little man.
Did trying to make things work between you two after the initial split make things worse?

 

[Smurfy]

damn this is a depressing ass thread.

Childbirth was hard to ensure. especially sans epidural.