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bigtravis

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Here's the deal. My life has been weird from the start.
11 years ago I had an affair with a married woman. She got pregnant by me. We went to the clinic to get an abortion along with her sister-n-law. I know Jerry Springer shit. Well 11 years later after no talking and so forth all of a sudden she's back in my life and I'm trying to slow things down enough to figure out.
The thing is.... I find out she has an 11 year old daughter. WTF?
 
bigtravis said:
I think I'm scared of the answer....
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scared that you could suddenly have a part of you in your life, or scared that you might not have what you suspect?

fear is only natural. what i would do is ask why it is i'm scared, and shift those reasons of fear to opportunity. its really easy to do if you let it be. this way your prepared to receive the answer. i really think everything happens for a reason and life hands you exactly what you need at that exact moment you need it most.
 
bigtravis said:
Here's the deal. My life has been weird from the start.
11 years ago I had an affair with a married woman. She got pregnant by me. We went to the clinic to get an abortion along with her sister-n-law. I know Jerry Springer shit. Well 11 years later after no talking and so forth all of a sudden she's back in my life and I'm trying to slow things down enough to figure out.
The thing is.... I find out she has an 11 year old daughter. WTF?
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In what capacity is she "back in your life"? Are you 2 seeing each other? When you were with her 11 years ago, she was cheating on her husband. Just remember, "If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you." ( I got that from Dr. Phil:D)
 
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ebonycurves said:
scared that you could suddenly have a part of you in your life, or scared that you might not have what you suspect?

fear is only natural. what i would do is ask why it is i'm scared, and shift those reasons of fear to opportunity. its really easy to do if you let it be. this way your prepared to receive the answer. i really think everything happens for a reason and life hands you exactly what you need at that exact moment you need it most.
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+1 He's in prison for the next 2.5 years. She just got divorced from him. He got on drugs real bad and her and the kids are in a really bad situation.
I know my head is telling me to stay "on guard". But they just got kicked out of their home and after she took an Ambien nite before last the truth came out and she said, "she took a cold shower". I said, "why"? Then she replied that, "the power has been off since monday."
She has three kids with her.
 
bigtravis said:
+1 He's in prison for the next 2.5 years. She just got divorced from him. He got on drugs real bad and her and the kids are in a really bad situation.
I know my head is telling me to stay "on guard". But they just got kicked out of their home and after she took an Ambien nite before last the truth came out and she said, "she took a cold shower". I said, "why"? Then she replied that, "the power has been off since monday."
She has three kids with her.
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So, are you saying that you'll want this guy in your life? After all, if you get with her, then he'll be around (for the kids).

I'd leave if I were you.
 
11 years have passed, she has no leg to stand on. So you have no responsiblity to even say hi to her, let alone find out if the kid is ours. She's already made the decsion to keep the kid otu of your life, so the kid is no longer yours, even if she was.

Tell little miss irresponsible and selfish to go take a hike. She's only there cuz she wants your help now. Very selfish. You deserve better.

r
 
EnderJE said:
I smell a SWV story coming on soon.
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Immature women do shit like this when they feel like they can control the guy. When they lose that power, their games stop.

For most women 18-35, men kiss their ass all day, so they're used to playing with guys and getting what they want. I deal with these immature brats all f'n day. It gets annoying.

r
 
why dont you just straight up ask her if the abortion didnt succeed and if the kid is yours or not
 
i can see it being like forrest gump when jenny invites him over and tells him hes a daddy.
good luck bro.
 
Razorguns said:
Funny how they had the music 'just cued' and ready to go! lol. Reality tv alright!!

r
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i actually saw the original vid of that and theres no music, whoever posted that vid added it. maximum authenticity!
 
bigtravis said:
Here's the deal. My life has been weird from the start.
11 years ago I had an affair with a married woman. She got pregnant by me. We went to the clinic to get an abortion along with her sister-n-law. I know Jerry Springer shit. Well 11 years later after no talking and so forth all of a sudden she's back in my life and I'm trying to slow things down enough to figure out.
The thing is.... I find out she has an 11 year old daughter. WTF?
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id chop my balls off.
 
i'd absolutely want to know. . .but, dang! 11 y/o girl? man, that's a funny age. . .just gettin' ready to move into that fun adolescent stage. . .good times :worried:
 
UPDATE! She came over to take a shower. We then went out to Macaroni Grill. Came back home and I asked her. The kid is not mine. I fucked her. When she left she asked, "you don't mind if I leave my shampoo and stuff here do you?" :worried:
 
bigtravis said:
+1 He's in prison for the next 2.5 years. She just got divorced from him. He got on drugs real bad and her and the kids are in a really bad situation.
I know my head is telling me to stay "on guard". But they just got kicked out of their home and after she took an Ambien nite before last the truth came out and she said, "she took a cold shower". I said, "why"? Then she replied that, "the power has been off since monday."
She has three kids with her.
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When you put something in quotations it's what that person is actually saying...not your interpretation....fuck.
 
bigtravis said:
UPDATE! She came over to take a shower. We then went out to Macaroni Grill. Came back home and I asked her. The kid is not mine. I fucked her. When she left she asked, "you don't mind if I leave my shampoo and stuff here do you?" :worried:
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So what was your answer?
 
cindylou said:
is the D&C the same thing as an abortion?
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the D&C part doesnt make it an abortion (it stands for dilate and curettage, basically they just scrape the lining off the uterus, treatment for several conditions), it's the suction in front of the D&C that means its an abortion.
 
Razorguns is right. she's using you. why? because she can. She knows she needs help- whether it's money or support, or a backup plan... and you're "too nice to say no".

Tell her you'd love to start seeing her once she gets settled down and she should call you then. but not before.
 
and without asking too many questions, i'd help the lady out.
if you can why not, if you can't then don't.
always good to help if you can
 
You sound a lot like my husband, waaaaay too nice. It's great to be a nice man just remember that when you extend yourself TOO much, it may bite you in the ass.

I'm just sayin use your head more than your heart.
 
Razorguns said:
11 years have passed, she has no leg to stand on. So you have no responsiblity to even say hi to her, let alone find out if the kid is ours. She's already made the decsion to keep the kid otu of your life, so the kid is no longer yours, even if she was.

Tell little miss irresponsible and selfish to go take a hike. She's only there cuz she wants your help now. Very selfish. You deserve better.

r
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I would have put it differently but this is correct.
 
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