But you haven't caught them in a lie?
I have this sixth sense about people lying....I don't know if I am super sensitive to change in voice tone, body language, or what, but every time I've acted on a gut feeling that someone was lying to me, I've been right.
One of my closest friends is doing this song and dance with me now. I'm 90% sure she's full of crap, but the 10% makes me not want to hurt her feelings if I'm wrong...and it makes me sick on my stomach because I feel like I'm sitting there listening to her dig the hole deeper, and it feels like disrespect slapping me in the face with every word.
I honestly am at a loss here. The subject matter is so sensitive that it would be horrifible if I were to say something and be wrong, but at the same time...deep down...I'm SURE that I'm not. Any advice on how to handle this would be great.
I have this sixth sense about people lying....I don't know if I am super sensitive to change in voice tone, body language, or what, but every time I've acted on a gut feeling that someone was lying to me, I've been right.
One of my closest friends is doing this song and dance with me now. I'm 90% sure she's full of crap, but the 10% makes me not want to hurt her feelings if I'm wrong...and it makes me sick on my stomach because I feel like I'm sitting there listening to her dig the hole deeper, and it feels like disrespect slapping me in the face with every word.
I honestly am at a loss here. The subject matter is so sensitive that it would be horrifible if I were to say something and be wrong, but at the same time...deep down...I'm SURE that I'm not. Any advice on how to handle this would be great.