sometimes i feel im missing out because im chasing after women who wont accept me for who i am. I feel like maybe the reason they dont accept me is because they think they are too good for me. Whereas when i talk to fatter women, they tend to be more accepting of me. so by dropping my standards, i find more accepting women and that means less of a headache to me.
i discovered long ago that lifting did very little to attract the chicks. I used to try to style my hair, wear nice clothes, tan, lift and workout and diet all the time, and i was goodlooking, but i never helped me get any tang. and my life sucked 24/7 because i was working my ass off trying to make myself look attractive. even if i was getting tang it still wouldnt have been worth it because the other 90% of the time id be pissed off, tired, hungry, dolled up, abercrombie looking, etc. i'd hate it.