NEVER EVER DATE NET CHICKS! NEVER EVER...EVER!
Think for a second. What woman requires the net to meet guys? Sluts and psychos, comrade.
Been there. Done that. You trick yourself into thinking, "Maybe, like myself, she's tired of the usual dating scene, and wants to get to know someone before meeting." Big mistake. You're there because you're genuine and lonely. She's there to parasitize, victimize, and opportunistically ambush guys who will fall for her BS.
She knew before anything was to go down that you'd be without a means of transportation. She took that into consideration, yet still urged you not to get a rental car. THAT, man, is fucked up (on top of the whole lying, luring, and leaving shit she had been up to).