We Often Mirror Our Parents Lifes.

[Norman Bates]

Good luck then , it´s always good when someone stops playing with the feelings of others.
And it´s also good that you stopped being a victim to that jerk you mentioned.

 

[ken343]

Thanks Norman Bates.

 

[Daeo]

I doubt it, but...

If what you say is true then I'm in deep shit...

 

[Franco C]

I just think certain compulsions are in certain people. The joy in victimization is frowned upon both legally and morally, you unable to be free to act, turn it inward (feel sorry for yourself etc.) just dropping some philosophy

 

[TEXgrl]

i agree that most patterns of abuse are repeated in the next generation, but it doesn't necessarily have to be that way. i was actually the third generation in a very abusive family. its not easy to break away from abuse, and not repeat it over again. i was told i was worthless etc, beaten, you name it. once i began to date, i even chose the same kind of man, but like wodin said, sometime in my early twenties, i recognized what i was doing and made a change. i hope you can do the same. you certainly don't want your children to go thru the same suffering you did.

good luck to you

 

[ken343]

TEXgrl

I'm soo much a different person now, and i value myself alot. Thank u for sharing your story with me. It's good to know we have over come this and are much better people because of it