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I grew in a house hold where my dad was constantly unfaithful to my step mum and used to beat her and she put up with it, she never left him it was as if it was ok for him to do that, he would bring his girlfriends home and she put up with it. So to me this was normal when i was grown up
I hated the person I was when I was with my ex. I used to lie to him, cheat behind his back, go on chat lines. My ex also had a temper like no other and he would lash out on me, god the heats and punches I got but still I could not leave him, so many times I tried but couldn’t.
I would seat myself down and ask why I’m I this way, why I’m I cheating on the person I love, why I’m I putting up with the abuse. I don’t blame him he too grew up in A very violent house hold where his dad had a temper and a really nasty one. So to him it was the normal thing to do.
Until Steve Harvey a friend of mine sat me down and told me when he was growing up his parents never had a fight and never cheated on each other. So to him me been with my ex who was abusive was not normal to him. The Thing is when you are growing up you have no other references other than your parents
My step mum used to slap me kick me punch me and I thought it was ok for her to do that right from the age of 6 till I was a lot older. You see I was a bastard child so when my dad would be unfaithful and she wouldn’t lash out on him but on me.
I do not hate my parents they did what they knew how to do then, but sometimes I used to cry when my step brother and sister and my step mum would pick on me, and because they were much older they let me know that my sister and I were bastard children.
It really affected my relationships because I did all the things my dad did to my step mum, to my ex because I thought it was ok. I could not stop myself so many times I cried and asked why, I’m I this way and then put up with the physical abuse from my ex because my step mum put up with also and because she used to heat me.
People if you mum was a teenage mum, it is more likely are daughter will be a teenage mum also. Or if your Dad was Abusive it is more likely his son will be abusive also
TO ALL YOU PARENTS OUT THERE PLEASE PLEASE BE A GOOD EXAMPLE TO YOUR CHILDREN RAISE THEM TO THE BEST YOU CAN BECAUSE WE OFTEN MIRROR OUR PARENTS LIFES.
I hated the person I was when I was with my ex. I used to lie to him, cheat behind his back, go on chat lines. My ex also had a temper like no other and he would lash out on me, god the heats and punches I got but still I could not leave him, so many times I tried but couldn’t.
I would seat myself down and ask why I’m I this way, why I’m I cheating on the person I love, why I’m I putting up with the abuse. I don’t blame him he too grew up in A very violent house hold where his dad had a temper and a really nasty one. So to him it was the normal thing to do.
Until Steve Harvey a friend of mine sat me down and told me when he was growing up his parents never had a fight and never cheated on each other. So to him me been with my ex who was abusive was not normal to him. The Thing is when you are growing up you have no other references other than your parents
My step mum used to slap me kick me punch me and I thought it was ok for her to do that right from the age of 6 till I was a lot older. You see I was a bastard child so when my dad would be unfaithful and she wouldn’t lash out on him but on me.
I do not hate my parents they did what they knew how to do then, but sometimes I used to cry when my step brother and sister and my step mum would pick on me, and because they were much older they let me know that my sister and I were bastard children.
It really affected my relationships because I did all the things my dad did to my step mum, to my ex because I thought it was ok. I could not stop myself so many times I cried and asked why, I’m I this way and then put up with the physical abuse from my ex because my step mum put up with also and because she used to heat me.
People if you mum was a teenage mum, it is more likely are daughter will be a teenage mum also. Or if your Dad was Abusive it is more likely his son will be abusive also
TO ALL YOU PARENTS OUT THERE PLEASE PLEASE BE A GOOD EXAMPLE TO YOUR CHILDREN RAISE THEM TO THE BEST YOU CAN BECAUSE WE OFTEN MIRROR OUR PARENTS LIFES.
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