others have said this, but this is really the key point here:
10- She was "hiding" the truths on a lot of things. And instead using reverse psychology on me and "accusing" me of "hiding" the truth on many things. This of course seriously fucked with my mind and emotions.
Something was going on, more than just crumb and dog pissed filled bed.
I am the same way about beds though man, I need a firm bed. I never eat in bed because I hate the idea of crumbs. I am a dog lover and grew up with dogs but never want to sleep in the same bed as a dog. I don't like getting into my own bed unless I've just showered.
My GF likes to eat in bed but doesn't because she knows I hate it. She also understand that I usually wanna fuck on top of the covers, not under them. I like to see what's going on anyway.