THis girl from the philippines has been after me over a year now.

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Quit meeting girls off the internet bro; it's bad news. Try the gym or something.

Here I must differ with you.

I met my exhusband in the gym over 20 years ago!!!

I met my current husbandtobe online.

It matters not where you meet a perspective mate. What matters is who you are seeking at that moment in time.

 

[krishna]

Here I must differ with you.

I met my exhusband in the gym over 20 years ago!!!

I met my current husbandtobe online.

It matters not where you meet a perspective mate. What matters is who you are seeking at that moment in time.

LAME

 

[Bikini Mod]

LAME

In what regard?

Smurfy actually met her current husband (now daddy to her son), Lumberg, of all places... ON EF.

It doesnt matter where you meet someone or how it is that you come to be introduced. What matters is who it is that you are looking for. After I split from my ex I did 99% of my dating online. I met many, many, many nice men. Of all the men I met, there were a handfull of liars/losers and a psycho or two. One of THE BIGGEST ASSES I went out with a few times was actually a set-up in real time.

 

[krishna]

In what regard?

Smurfy actually met her current husband (now daddy to her son), Lumberg, of all places... ON EF.

It doesnt matter where you meet someone or how it is that you come to be introduced. What matters is who it is that you are looking for. After I split from my ex I did 99% of my dating online. I met many, many, many nice men. Of all the men I met, there were a handfull of liars/losers and a psycho or two. One of THE BIGGEST ASSES I went out with a few times was actually a set-up in real time.

Ok you've convinced me. I'm going to sign up for all the dating sites right now so I can meet my future wife...... ya right!

Why is it so hard for people to strike up a conversation with a pretty girl at the music store, or at work, or school, or the gym, or the store? At least you know they're real and you can get a vibe from an actual real person instead of some picture and profile of someone who hides behind an internet identity. Personally, I prefer meeting people in real life situations, but I guess it's not that easy for some. I even like getting rejected from time to time; reminds me that I'm human and won't click with every girl I meet. But most of the time, my fearless attitude will at least get me a new friend .

 

[Bikini Mod]

Ok you've convinced me. I'm going to sign up for all the dating sites right now so I can meet my future wife...... ya right!

Why is it so hard for people to strike up a conversation with a pretty girl at the music store, or at work, or school, or the gym, or the store? At least you know they're real and you can get a vibe from an actual real person instead of some picture and profile of someone who hides behind an internet identity. Personally, I prefer meeting people in real life situations, but I guess it's not that easy for some. I even like getting rejected from time to time; reminds me that I'm human and won't click with every girl I meet. But most of the time, my fearless attitude will at least get me a new friend .

I assume that you are young and have not the responsiblities of children or many/many hours of work.

Those of us who are older and are single parents value our precious free time highly.

I have never and will never date anyone where I work. PERIOD

I met my exhusband in the gym when I was barely 21. I would never ever ever consider dating anyone in any gym that I train sonce then. I am not a child and NO MAN in any gym will gain carnal knowledge of me - period. I value myself far too much to allow any men to compromise my integrity.

I would never ever EVER consider dating a man from any place where I go to chill with my friends as again, NO MAN will ever gain carnal knowledge of me.

When I am with my children - no man exists, as I am with my children.

So now... when am I to meet these people?

Online you can browse thousands of profiles from the privacy of your own home. The number of people that you can weed through this way is exponentially greater than if you were at the grocery store for example. And have far more control over filtering out who interests you and who doesn't.

One can get a very good feel from the way a profile is written, a chat/two and then subsequent telephone call. Then a quick meeting if both parties agree. Then to two can meet again or not.

Wastes a lot less time and the pool of potential suitors is much wider than meeting people without.

 

[Bikini Mod]

And just and FYI - though many men look at me very few men that I would be interested in actually approach me in real time.

 

[healother]

I met my exhusband in the gym when I was barely 21. I would never ever ever consider dating anyone in any gym that I train sonce then. I am not a child and NO MAN in any gym will gain carnal knowledge of me - period. I value myself far too much to allow any men to compromise my integrity.

I would never ever EVER consider dating a man from any place where I go to chill with my friends as again, NO MAN will ever gain carnal knowledge of me.
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Okay, this is the one part of your post that really doesnt make sense. what do you mean? NO MAN, carnal knowledge, integrity? lol. Okay, if you date a man you met online, they are still a MAN, if you have sex with them they have 'carnal knowledge' of you.

What makes it so much different if they attend the same gym or hangout spot as you? And what does if have to do with VALUE, if you end up dating one of them and sleeping with them? that makes no sense! I dont get how dating a man from gym would hurt your value anymore than dating a guy from the internet. And neither places would hurt your value! The only thing that is possibly going to degrade a woman's value, is when she sleeps with the man right away, which can happen with men you meet on the internet and in real life.

i agreed with most of the other stuff u said. online dating is a great time saver and a way to have a much bigger selection. And dating ppl from work sucks! (dont shit where you walk)
For a woman, online dating is great, many more guys online than women. for men though, it sucks.

 

[krishna]

I assume that you are young and have not the responsiblities of children or many/many hours of work.

Those of us who are older and are single parents value our precious free time highly.

I have never and will never date anyone where I work. PERIOD

I met my exhusband in the gym when I was barely 21. I would never ever ever consider dating anyone in any gym that I train sonce then. I am not a child and NO MAN in any gym will gain carnal knowledge of me - period. I value myself far too much to allow any men to compromise my integrity.

I would never ever EVER consider dating a man from any place where I go to chill with my friends as again, NO MAN will ever gain carnal knowledge of me.

When I am with my children - no man exists, as I am with my children.

So now... when am I to meet these people?

Online you can browse thousands of profiles from the privacy of your own home. The number of people that you can weed through this way is exponentially greater than if you were at the grocery store for example. And have far more control over filtering out who interests you and who doesn't.

One can get a very good feel from the way a profile is written, a chat/two and then subsequent telephone call. Then a quick meeting if both parties agree. Then to two can meet again or not.

Wastes a lot less time and the pool of potential suitors is much wider than meeting people without.

You have some serious walls built up woman. You've made absolute decisions on how to meet men based off of a few bad experiences. You should be open to all possibilites. What if the man of your dreams is standing next to you at the grocery store? He turns to you and says hi but you blow him off because you've decided that you don't and won't meet people that way. I understand that if you have kids, you need to be more selective and protective with some of the decisions that you make, but why make absolutes that significantly narrow your chances of meeting new people? I have an acquantance that meets girls off the internet all the time, and they're usually nasty or trashy or have some other issues. That shit is not for me. It's cool if you want to meet guys off the internet (I guess ) but IMO, you shouldn't limit your other possibilities.

 

[krishna]

Besides, how do you know that this guy you're marrying won't turn out to be one of the biggest mistakes you ever made? I bet you didn't think the guy at the gym was a mistake when you first married him. What are you gonna do then? Not meet guys off the internet either? Then you'll be out of options lady. Like you said earlier, it's not the situation or where you meet them, so why limit the situations or places you'll meet them in? Take your own advice. Just looking out girlie.

 

[iHulk]

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