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First, heavy duty was the closest to what she feels for this guy. In fact, she despises him. But back to the meeting; I heard what she had to say and i must say I believe. I am sworn not to tell anyone till it passes so don't ask. But it is way to incredible to be untrue.
Yes, heavy duty for a time it was over, but she contacted me and followed through on her telling me.
Now, here is the deal. I went to her house early, before she got home and her dad and I talked quite a bit. He was acting weird and I wasn't sure why and then he asked me if I was pumping him for info and I told him no. He was like I wasn't sure cause I thought you and my daughter were over and this is usually the time the guy would come around and start asking questions. So I just told him that is not how I operate. I am her to take her to school and she is going to tell me what is going on between her and the ex is not what I think it is. And then I made him promise not to talk to his daughter about any of what we talk about. He said he wouldn't and I believe him. If he does well what can I say. It would be over for sure. But he told me that all she said on Friday or Saturday morning was that it was over between us. And then later she said that she was going to talk to me at some point and that was it.
I told him that yeah, we had a blow out Friday night without saying what it was and that she got a hold of me and told me that she didn't realize how much she liked me and wanted to work through this because of that. We talked for about 30 minutes about that. I told him that I thought at first that she was pushing me back starting about a week before you two went on xmas vacation and figured it was because she had been hurt so much in the past that she was protecting herself because she was realizing that she had real feelings for me. Anyway, so we talked. Now I did ask him if he got to play golf over the weekend cause that was what he was supposed to do, and I know she had a conference but had to cancel it. Of course that was when he thought I was really pumping for info about what he knew about the blow out.
So, anyway, I told him again, like I had in the past that if he ever saw something I was doing that he didn't like with his daughter he can tell me straight up and that I will never ask him for info because that is not how I operate. and also that if she were to tell me that it is over, I would be gone and they would never hear from me again. I'm not like the past dudes who would keep tabs on her by following her around etc.
I digress again, as we are leaving I tell him well I hope it's good news or you won't be seeing me again. He kinda chuckled like good luck. Later the three of us went to dinner together in my new truck. He even came out to look at it when I first got there.
Long story short, here is where actions will speak louder than words. We are going to work on it and work through this. And yes, I believe her that she is not having sex with him.
That is all I have to say about this. Out of 388 posts only one person was close to how she felt. And she was never physically or emotionally attracted to him except very superficially.
Yes, heavy duty for a time it was over, but she contacted me and followed through on her telling me.
Now, here is the deal. I went to her house early, before she got home and her dad and I talked quite a bit. He was acting weird and I wasn't sure why and then he asked me if I was pumping him for info and I told him no. He was like I wasn't sure cause I thought you and my daughter were over and this is usually the time the guy would come around and start asking questions. So I just told him that is not how I operate. I am her to take her to school and she is going to tell me what is going on between her and the ex is not what I think it is. And then I made him promise not to talk to his daughter about any of what we talk about. He said he wouldn't and I believe him. If he does well what can I say. It would be over for sure. But he told me that all she said on Friday or Saturday morning was that it was over between us. And then later she said that she was going to talk to me at some point and that was it.
I told him that yeah, we had a blow out Friday night without saying what it was and that she got a hold of me and told me that she didn't realize how much she liked me and wanted to work through this because of that. We talked for about 30 minutes about that. I told him that I thought at first that she was pushing me back starting about a week before you two went on xmas vacation and figured it was because she had been hurt so much in the past that she was protecting herself because she was realizing that she had real feelings for me. Anyway, so we talked. Now I did ask him if he got to play golf over the weekend cause that was what he was supposed to do, and I know she had a conference but had to cancel it. Of course that was when he thought I was really pumping for info about what he knew about the blow out.
So, anyway, I told him again, like I had in the past that if he ever saw something I was doing that he didn't like with his daughter he can tell me straight up and that I will never ask him for info because that is not how I operate. and also that if she were to tell me that it is over, I would be gone and they would never hear from me again. I'm not like the past dudes who would keep tabs on her by following her around etc.
I digress again, as we are leaving I tell him well I hope it's good news or you won't be seeing me again. He kinda chuckled like good luck. Later the three of us went to dinner together in my new truck. He even came out to look at it when I first got there.
Long story short, here is where actions will speak louder than words. We are going to work on it and work through this. And yes, I believe her that she is not having sex with him.
That is all I have to say about this. Out of 388 posts only one person was close to how she felt. And she was never physically or emotionally attracted to him except very superficially.
