So This is Why I havent been around...

[DIVISION]

Just say "NO!" to the white women.

I've tried. It doesn't work, bro.

Even if I say "NO!" to them, they keep saying "YES!" to me....





DIV

 

[CrazyK]

I've tried. It doesn't work, bro.

Even if I say "NO!" to them, they keep saying "YES!" to me....





DIV

Maybe try the European brand of white women? I think they're a little better.

 

[DIVISION]

Maybe try the European brand of white women? I think they're a little better.

You're right.........I'm thinking Italian, Estonian or Yugoslavian.

Eastern European brand it is!





DIV

 

[spongebob]

im very sorry to hear your misfortune i hope you can just move and be happy without her.

 

[SoKlueles]

Im sorry about this DCC, I dont know u but I do know you are funny and have alot of good qualities about you.
Your heart hurts, your self esteem hurts, your ego hurts and all that will get better in time. You dont need a woman to fill that void right now. More than likely it will be the very first woman that shows you a bit of attention. Then youll regret it, Give it time,get your head straight then be happy
and screw the ex, she dont deserve you

 

[mendo]

Okay so if you guys think you can generalize the whole female race then I think I should be able to generalize as well…

Here is it blunt…

Men cheat because they are horn-balls and have the biological need to spread their seed to every willing recipient.

Women cheat because there is something missing in the relationship… Be it emotional or physical..

That being said most likely you were not fucking her right.. And she became so sexually frustrated that she went looking elsewhere to fulfill that need.

She is probably being mean now because you have ignored her needs for so long that she is pissed off that all of a sudden she matters to you…

Sorry that is the bottom line…

Courtney...what was missing from DCC's relationship was communication, maturity and commitment...ON HER PART.

She wasn't seeking out sex for physical reasons (there is no way she was with him for that long if the sex was just shitty for her)...it was to boost her own ego...her self esteem, as a few others have said. Thats the real reason women (and many guys) cheat. And the solution for a lack of desire or sexual satisfaction...in a healthy mature relationship...is communication and honesty...not adultery.

And AAP...as far as advocating that DCC find a girl to fuck asap...that wasn't meant to be a longterm solution. It is only to take his mind off shit while they are living together...as I can assure you, he isn't going to be able to clear his head and think for a little while.

 

[DIVISION]

And AAP...as far as advocating that DCC find a girl to fuck asap...that wasn't meant to be a longterm solution. It is only to take his mind off shit while they are living together...as I can assure you, he isn't going to be able to clear his head and think for a little while.

What makes it doubly worse is the fact that he's the type of guy who WANTS marriage and wasn't pushed in to it, he genuinly likes it.

I also don't believe he's the type who will find much solace in fucking random women, like most guys. He's a relationship type, and he will feel incomplete until he has that again.





DIV

 

[DiamondCutCows]

The problem is, I'm not sure if he's strong enough to cut ties and wash his hands of the whole situation. Yes, she'll probably try to crawl back eventually, but I only hope he's strong willed enough to be resolute in his decicion, whatever that may be.

Like I said, once a woman cheats, I wouldn't be able to take her back under any circumstances. CowCutter seems like the type of guy who might take her back, but I hope he understand that he might be setting himself up for a bigger fall later down the line.




DIV

You're right Div, I am the kind of guy to take her back, BUT Im NOT. This is the ONE thing in a marriage that is UNFORGIVEABLE. I know that she'll want me in a matter of weeks, but it's the life she chose.

If she wants to casually call me once in a while to talk about how our seperate lives are going then thats fine.

Im finding me a lady who appreciates being my diamond. Its how I think a guy should treat his woman. I wont settle for another who doesnt realize how lucky she is...

 

[habitualhealth]

You're right Div, I am the kind of guy to take her back, BUT Im NOT. This is the ONE thing in a marriage that is UNFORGIVEABLE. I know that she'll want me in a matter of weeks, but it's the life she chose.

If she wants to casually call me once in a while to talk about how our seperate lives are going then thats fine.

Im finding me a lady who appreciates being my diamond. Its how I think a guy should treat his woman. I wont settle for another who doesnt realize how lucky she is...

I'm curious...are we running on suspicion or proof? (not excusing any behavior by any means) just wondering if you know for a fact she cheated?

 

[mendo]

You're right Div, I am the kind of guy to take her back, BUT Im NOT. This is the ONE thing in a marriage that is UNFORGIVEABLE. I know that she'll want me in a matter of weeks, but it's the life she chose.

If she wants to casually call me once in a while to talk about how our seperate lives are going then thats fine.

Im finding me a lady who appreciates being my diamond. Its how I think a guy should treat his woman. I wont settle for another who doesnt realize how lucky she is...

That is really good to hear bro! Sounds like you know where to go from here and you're already learning and growing from this. You'll get what you deserve...and so will she.