4 months is not that long. And if your in school right now love is not your #1 priority, and you needn't let it be or you'll only short change your education and possible career choice. Stay busy with school work, stay in the gym, focus on other things in your life. Right now is the time for you man, find out what really makes you happy. I broke it off w/ a girl I dated for 3 yrs once, it sucks trying to get through it but it was my first real girlfriend. After I dated around awhile I realized it was also one of my worst girlfriends. I'm married now and thank God not to her.