So i slept in another girls bed for the first time since my ex

[the_clockwork]

you are doomed to be a pussy forever

 

[H_T_]

True more often than not.

everyone wants to be wanted. wants someone to need them...idk, i'm no authority, but i see too many people who are so "deeply" in love with someone and then move on to the next person without hesitation....

 

[cindylou]

it hasbeen over for almost a month but only officially for about 2 weeks, since i have been back at school

How long were you together?

 

[the_clockwork]

How long were you together?

lol like 4 months

 

[the_clockwork]

but in all seriousness.. did you lose your virginity to her? If so you will have a bond with her forever, so technically you will never get over her

 

[vixensghost]

I'd say all experiences, in regards to "love", "lust", are what make us who we are. I've learned a lot about myself thru the best and worst of relationships.

Move on and grow.

 

[calveless wonder]

it's normal to feel what you're feeling after a couple of weeks..........

it'll go away over time. just realize it takes time and you made the right decision.

the girls bed you slept in wasnt your future wife, so its not a big deal. dont make it a bigger deal than it really is. experience other types of girls (variety) and focus on you

your girl was poison anyways


also remember this. as an attractive girl, they can find another person very quickly. its just part of being an attractive girl.
which is why you shouldn't dwell, suffer or feel bad about living your life and moving forward. waste as little time as possible thinking about that person

 

[alien amp pharm]

search back and read the SWV threads by me, Lestat, and theOak and you will feel 100X better afterwards.

 

[princesa]

sometimes people believe they're in love, when in reality, they are in love with the idea of being a couple, being in a relationship, being part of something. sometimes you fall in love with the way the other person makes you feel, not the other person.

^^^^^^very true....As BM said think of all the hurtfull things and keep busy

 

[fistfullofsteel]

stop being a pussy, seriously, grow some balls. nothing more pathetic than some guy crying over a girl because supposedly she broke his heart. bang lots of hot bitches and things will get better.