quickest way to get your SO to lose weight?

[heatherrae]

i phoned her tonight and asked her if she wanted to go for a drink and a chat
because i felt so terrible about what happened today
shame she's already at the bottom of a bottle feeling all the worldly woes of a 23 year old tonight
but tomorrow night would be just fine, or the night after, or even the night after that
all you guys know what that translates as

She's going to sue you for sexual harassment...lol.

 

[JayC9]

LOL

I've addressed this issue.

No hot young employees for me or my husband.

If anything I would hire a gay man. This way there can never be any unwarranted bullshit.

the wife has most generously volunteered to interview and hire the next one
i can't wait till quasimodo walks through the office door

 

[JayC9]

She's going to sue you for sexual harassment...lol.

that's just for silly countries
here, man rules, period
probably because the judges are all slipping a length to their PA's

 

[Bikini Mod]

the wife has most generously volunteered to interview and hire the next one
i can't wait till quasimodo walks through the office door

My husband knows the deal...

We joke about how he will hire a crew of 22 yr old HYUGE bewbied stripper chicks to clean the house. I always say, "WTF do I care that they are buck-ass nekkid as long as my toilet is clean?!" <---- on the one hand I mean that but on the other hand I am also bright enough to realize that ain't NEVER going to happen.

One could say that I should just hire a cute young pool boy and keep a pocketfull of quarters by my loungechair. hehehehee But naaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh.

My take is, "Look, do your job, then leave." So why should I hire someone hot? How bout I just hire someone competent. Ugly and older goes a loooooooooong way with me.

 

[Raptorex]

i phoned her tonight and asked her if she wanted to go for a drink and a chat
because i felt so terrible about what happened today
shame she's already at the bottom of a bottle feeling all the worldly woes of a 23 year old tonight
but tomorrow night would be just fine, or the night after, or even the night after that
all you guys know what that translates as

lmfao!

 

[JayC9]

My husband knows the deal...

We joke about how he will hire a crew of 22 yr old HYUGE bewbied stripper chicks to clean the house. I always say, "WTF do I care that they are buck-ass nekkid as long as my toilet is clean?!" <---- on the one hand I mean that but on the other hand I am also bright enough to realize that ain't NEVER going to happen.

One could say that I should just hire a cute young pool boy and keep a pocketfull of quarters by my loungechair. hehehehee But naaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh.

My take is, "Look, do your job, then leave." So why should I hire someone hot? How bout I just hire someone competent. Ugly and older goes a loooooooooong way with me.

i agree the bottom line is competency, my cook and cleaner are butt ugly, though they’re almost family
still i always aim to make environments easier on the eyes, sex sells no question about it, a combination can be found
it's like wallpaper, no one digs floral, i much prefer a younger modern swash
if i walk into the office every day and the first thing that greets me is a hideous being it’s not good

 

[velvett]

I was going to say leave them for a younger verison of themselves.

 

[Bikini Mod]

i agree the bottom line is competency, my cook and cleaner are butt ugly, though they’re almost family
still i always aim to make environments easier on the eyes, sex sells no question about it, a combination can be found
it's like wallpaper, no one digs floral, i much prefer a younger modern swash
if i walk into the office every day and the first thing that greets me is a hideous being it’s not good

Feel you... The way I would hire for an office is much different than who I would hire for home.

I refuse to let *my shape* go for a number of reasons. The main reason is NOT because of my husband, though it is one admittedly. I WANT my husband to ALWAYS WANT ME. But I know my own skin and am happier with myself and FEEL BETTER OVERALL (not just psychological but physically I dont feel good if I get squooshy and out of shape) when I maintain a modicum of good shape.

It would kill me if I thought that my husband would look at another woman and think to himself, "Damn, I wish my wife would just put down the fukkin donuts and give a shit like she used to."

 

[EnderJE]

It would kill me if I thought that my husband would look at another woman and think to himself, "Damn, I wish my wife would just put down the fukkin donuts and give a shit like she used to."

You are in the minority. However, I don't think that my wife doesn't give a shit. It's just other priorities have a higher standing.

 

[JayC9]

Feel you... The way I would hire for an office is much different than who I would hire for home.

I refuse to let *my shape* go for a number of reasons. The main reason is NOT because of my husband, though it is one admittedly. I WANT my husband to ALWAYS WANT ME. But I know my own skin and am happier with myself and FEEL BETTER OVERALL (not just psychological but physically I dont feel good if I get squooshy and out of shape) when I maintain a modicum of good shape.

It would kill me if I thought that my husband would look at another woman and think to himself, "Damn, I wish my wife would just put down the fukkin donuts and give a shit like she used to."

This is almost another subject.

It's how you were brought up, the morals and codes you were computed with as a child and more importantly, as a teenager.

I brought myself up from the age of 16, hence I live by my rules and my codes of conduct, not others.

This doesn't fit in with 99% of females, I simply don't have the hang-ups of most of the population because I don't think that way, but to be honest I couldn't give shit because the most important thing in life is to enjoy it and be yourself.

The way I view it is, every girl wants to sleep with me, whether she knows it or not, if she doesn't then she's obviously mentally deficient, and I don't copulate with the mentally handicapped.

It’s simple like that.

I don't bring it into the house, the wife half accepts that.

If she came to me today and said she'd met an arty farty type that would suit her better then I'd be more than happy for her, I'd want to be at the wedding and I'd wish her all the best.

My personal freedom is above anything else.