Please help, serious situation. Need any legal advice you may have regarding bloodtst

[bigmann245]

If I were you, I would want to know if this kid has my blood in his veins. Sure I would make his mom pay for the test and stuff, but at least I would know. I have a son now and I see a part of me in his eyes everytime I look at him. I can't stand the thought of thinking there could be another kid like him in the world and I'm not involved.

Do the right thing dude, You may have to pay child support but that is just money, nothing compared to the blessings this kid can bring into your life.

BTW- There is always the chance he is not even yours.




-BRR

i agree with this 100%. i have a 7 year old son who is a spitting image of me. i wanted to wait to have children but after we were married we found out she was 3 weeks pregnant. so much for waiting. hey i was in the navy and just got back from a 6 month deployment and we couldnt keep our hands off each other. but i am so glad it happened because we do everything together. if it turns out to be yours please be a man and take care of your responsibilities.

 

[CENTURION44]

I dont think since she didnt include you plus had so many partners they can force you...you will just have to sign a full release of parental rights...but then again you could be someones dad..why pass up on that...

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: Please help, serious situation. Need any legal advice you may have regarding bloo

what are the odds on me? I'm thinkin a fourth guy. I know this also has to be about her fighting with her ex-husband and not wanting him to have that many rites just out of spite, to be a dick to him.

i agree, and shes taking u down with it.

if the othe rguy is willing to care for the kid then i dont see what her problem is...shes obviously a huge fucking slut, and i bet you it ends out how it did with cartman in that southpark episode

 

[stilleto]

If I were you, I would want to know if this kid has my blood in his veins. Sure I would make his mom pay for the test and stuff, but at least I would know. I have a son now and I see a part of me in his eyes everytime I look at him. I can't stand the thought of thinking there could be another kid like him in the world and I'm not involved.

Do the right thing dude, You may have to pay child support but that is just money, nothing compared to the blessings this kid can bring into your life.

BTW- There is always the chance he is not even yours.

-BRR

the first good response. i agree 100%.
yes, you might have to pay child support if its yours, but on the other hand.. YOU MIGHT HAVE A CHILD.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You did indeed have sexual relations (always wanted to use that phrase) with this woman.. and their are chances of this child being of YOUR blood.

Maybe it is.. maybe it isn't ... Don't try to run from possible responsibility. Tell her she will have to pay for the tests and then go from there.

Of course if the results come back positive then you will be forced to pay support. But the rewards that come from children and knowing that they are a little piece of you... Priceless.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Re: Please help, serious situation. Need any legal advice you may have regarding bloo

You did indeed have sexual relations (always wanted to use that phrase) with this woman.. and their are chances of this child being of YOUR blood.

Maybe it is.. maybe it isn't ... Don't try to run from possible responsibility. Tell her she will have to pay for the tests and then go from there.

Of course if the results come back positive then you will be forced to pay support. But the rewards that come from children and knowing that they are a little piece of you... Priceless.

whatever, the kid isnt "his" per se, since its already 5 and he hasnt been able to be a part of his life.

in an instance like this it would be purely monetary requirements and he wouldnt benefit from being a father at all, and the kid probably wouldnt even like him and want to be in his life.

this lady is making his, hers, everyone involved, and especially the kids life more complicated than it has to be. shes just doing it for attention and money

 

[monstermmf]

If I were you, I would want to know if this kid has my blood in his veins. Sure I would make his mom pay for the test and stuff, but at least I would know. I have a son now and I see a part of me in his eyes everytime I look at him. I can't stand the thought of thinking there could be another kid like him in the world and I'm not involved.

Do the right thing dude, You may have to pay child support but that is just money, nothing compared to the blessings this kid can bring into your life.

BTW- There is always the chance he is not even yours.




-BRR

Agreed here... I thought I was going to be in that situation. Once the child was born, the girl called me up and told me it was down to 3 guys.. I was like.. ok.. holy fuck first off you whore.. but then I was like ok.. Seriously, what do I have to do. I'm a senior in college, with just a part time job. Really freaked me out... I knew she slept around, and I wrapped it up for the first part, but I got off once, and ripped the condom off and kept nailing her, not thinking.. went back and fucked her again.. The only time I fully got off was in the condom, but yes, I'm not stupid and know that theres a chance during the whole time. Anyways, point being, she got a court order for two of us to get tests. The first guy was ruled out when the kid was white. So now.. There I am, court ordered to get a blood test. I only told my lifting buddy about it, because I had no clue what to do with the situation. How am I going to take care of this kid if it's mine. I first ignored her calls before the court order, so that's when I was worried after I did find out that part. So I went and got my test done scared as shit.. Waited for the results, and I never got a call from anyone. I'm still wondering though. The girl was older than I, 24, and had told me before she didn't want to call me in the first place because she didn't want to fuck up my career and college. So to this day, I wonder if maybe it was mine and maybe she didn't call me and is waiting. The other guy had admitted to blowing in her, and also tried to convince her to get an abortion from the beginning. So..

The day I graduate is the day I'm calling her up and ask for sure. There's no way that I would let anything that I made, grow up without a father figure. I know it's going to put a financial burdon on me, but I still think about her. Just some bartender I worked with when I was bouncing, that I nailed on a friendly basis.. We fucked, we were friends, thats it.. and we were drunk when we fucked anyways.. I mean yeah, I could take this one and run, but I don't think I could do that to a kid, specially being my offspring.

 

[gab9681]

I went through the same thing. Mine wasn't a blood test, mine was a mouth swab. I ended up having to pay something like $34.00 for it because I ended up being the father by 99.9% positive testing. If you are the father, you do have the option to waive all rights to the child. If you do this, you won't have to pay support, but you will also never be able to see your child. This is how it is here anyways. Not sure about other states. Good luck though to you. And make sure you take some time to figure out what you want to do if you end up being the father.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Dooood.....

I wouldn't give up parental rights no matter WHAT. Even if I found out about the kid when he/she was 5 or 6 or 7. It would take a long time for the kid to get use to it and you might have a hard time the first few years. In the end it is worth the effort.
You never know what could happen in the future, some day you may find yourself old and alone... You are going to wish you hadn't passed up the chance at being a part of that kid's life. When you are old and got one foot in the grave, you are going to wish you had some sons and grandsons around to keep you company.



-BRR

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Re: Please help, serious situation. Need any legal advice you may have regarding bloo

whatever, the kid isnt "his" per se, since its already 5 and he hasnt been able to be a part of his life.

in an instance like this it would be purely monetary requirements and he wouldnt benefit from being a father at all, and the kid probably wouldnt even like him and want to be in his life.

this lady is making his, hers, everyone involved, and especially the kids life more complicated than it has to be. shes just doing it for attention and money

OMG

you have to be kidding RIGHT!

I know adults that search every day for their TRUE identity...

Wouldn't benefit from being a father? OMG.. Being a parent is the best gift that can be given.

I should smack you upside the head.


Keep your pee pee in your pants dammit