yeah, i've had similar problems. it definetely sucks, but you learn to take it in stride. the more you laugh it off/take it as a compliment (aka you're the man) then the easier it is.
trust me, it's wayyy worse in south beach. i've had alot of ngr football player and rappers try to holler at my girl. but again, just kind of comes to the territory.
a ngr as big as you has a lot less to worry about. would have been nice for you to light up antonio gates lol
if anything, having a super hot girl motivates you to be on top of your game (be jacked, make more $$, look good etc). never want to be the one who's "not in her league"