well thats the thing, i didnt expect it to be absolute failure. 165 went up pretty easy 5x5. I didnt expect 175 to be such a bitch. I think i've finally convinced one of my friends to start coming with me to the gym so I'll have someone to spot me.
it's recommended that you only go up by 5 punds for 5x5.
i get pinned once a week and i lift alone. you'll learn it's no big deal. getting pinned under boards is a little different but you can get out from under them also