Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't get a chance to respond

[heatherrae]

thank u for answering honestly, i assumed they were like ur boobs with like tape over the nips and thats it.

i dunno, i just know it would hurt my feelings to see a woman i had a serious relationship with posting stuff like "Your so sexy, if ididnt have a fella the things id do". i would tell her to not let me hold her back and let her fullfill her fantasies.

i assume it would make you feel a bit upset to see your man posting his cock without your knowledge and having other women comment on them, and himg oing around praising womens assets in a manner that single people do

I didn't post my vag, so posting his penis is a little overboard on the analogy.

The flirts such as "If I didn't have a guy..." are compliments only. Relax. If I truly wanted to have sex with someone other than my guy, I would break up with him and seek that other person. (We are engaged, not married). I like to make people feel good about themselves. I like to point out things about them that I admire. If you pay attention to some of my posts to women, I'm just as free with compliments to the ladies as I am to the men.

As for the photos, if it didn't bother my guy, I wouldn't care. It does bug him, so I didn't do it again.

They were in a thread where everyone was calling me an alter and asking for proof photos that the photos in my profile were of me. They asked for nudes, etc. In sort of an impulsive mood, I posted sort of sexy photos that were less than asked for but which would sort of fulfill the specific requests to prove it was me. Silly, sure, but certainly not anything I'm terribly concerned or ashamed about.

Okay enough about that. =-)

 

[Frisky]

Peopel judge man, it's what they do. Every single time one of you posts something, I judge the living shit out of you. And you had better believe I judge peoples' pics as well. This place is every bit as bad as bars as far as the gossiping and promiscuity goes. I sincerely think a lot of relationships die because people just can't grow out of shit like this. If you want certain things though, you can't act like a teenager for the rest of your life is my guess. I don't know entirely, since I still act like a teenager, but logic is telling me that if i keep acting like this, my life will keep being like this. I'll have to make that decision at some point I suspect.

read your post and then give a response to your post. Here you judge people for judging people and then say you juddge people

wtf

 

[Nathan]

You're high

I so am not and it's not often I can say that and mean it.

Friskinator - I made no contradictions. I don't remember saying anything about not judging anyone. Judging is human nature. It depends on what you do with your decisions that matter. I don't think you should voice your judgements all that often necessarily - not much good can come from it usually.

Do you eman the stuff about being a teenager? i wasn't talking about growing out of judging people. I meant growing out of some of the things people do to get attention - like posting risque pictures or whipping out your box, dick or your tit when you get it pierced. I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just saying you will be judged. And most people probably won't think to themselves, "I want this person as my girlfriend." Instead, they think I want to fuck this person or ew that's gross put it away.

All I meant was that certain behaviors are instigators for failed relationships and it takes a mature person to recognize what those might be. I also said I'm still immature so take my words witha grain of salt.

And also I don't think heatherrae did anyting all that bad. I respect the way she's talking about it here and not making excuses and were I her husband because of that alone, I wouldn't really care.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I didn't post my vag, so posting his penis is a little overboard on the analogy.

The flirts such as "If I didn't have a guy..." are compliments only. Relax. If I truly wanted to have sex with someone other than my guy, I would break up with him and seek that other person. (We are engaged, not married). I like to make people feel good about themselves. I like to point out things about them that I admire. If you pay attention to some of my posts to women, I'm just as free with compliments to the ladies as I am to the men.

As for the photos, if it didn't bother my guy, I wouldn't care. It does bug him, so I didn't do it again.

They were in a thread where everyone was calling me an alter and asking for proof photos that the photos in my profile were of me. They asked for nudes, etc. In sort of an impulsive mood, I posted sort of sexy photos that were less than asked for but which would sort of fulfill the specific requests to prove it was me. Silly, sure, but certainly not anything I'm terribly concerned or ashamed about.

Okay enough about that. =-)

i just want u to try and put urself in his situation for a second.

if your slut your body around instead of keeping it sacred and for him, he will lose respect for you and find you less precious. it will affect you negatively too. you should want to keep your body sacred for him. i dont mean cover ur entire body like muslim extremists, just what our society deems as the sexparts is all.

im not saying ur doing that, just trying to further explain my logic, since i feel i owe u an explination because u were kind enough to give me one.

i appreciate u discussing this with me instead of becoming emotional and bitchy and defensive like womenusually get

 

[heatherrae]

i just want u to try and put urself in his situation for a second.

if your slut your body around instead of keeping it sacred and for him, he will lose respect for you and find you less precious. it will affect you negatively too. you should want to keep your body sacred for him. i dont mean cover ur entire body like muslim extremists, just what our society deems as the sexparts is all.

im not saying ur doing that, just trying to further explain my logic, since i feel i owe u an explination because u were kind enough to give me one.

i appreciate u discussing this with me instead of becoming emotional and bitchy and defensive like womenusually get

I get your point sublime. I don't blame you or anyone else from making judgments about me based upon that. I put it out there, and I should be woman enough to take criticism of my own actions. I deleted the photos because, in retrospect, I didn't find it funny or sexy or anything else positive. I just didn't feel it was the picture of myself that I wanted to put out to the world. I don't think they were particularly bad photos, but I wouldn't want just anyone seeing them, either. It was my mistake. Hindsight is 20/20. I feel like I'm better than that and there was no good reason for them to be here, so I deleted them.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I get your point sublime. I don't blame you or anyone else from making judgments about me based upon that. I put it out there, and I should be woman enough to take criticism of my own actions. I deleted the photos because, in retrospect, I didn't find it funny or sexy or anything else positive. I just didn't feel it was the picture of myself that I wanted to put out to the world. I don't think they were particularly bad photos, but I wouldn't want just anyone seeing them, either. It was my mistake. Hindsight is 20/20. I feel like I'm better than that and there was no good reason for them to be here, so I deleted them.

im proud of you.

its too bad women arnt smart enough to realize the potential fault of their actions untill after they are performed.. you cant delete cheating

 

[slickdadd]

My name is slickdadd, and I am also guilty of posting my box on the internet. Please don't hate me. I'm human, just like the rest of you. Except for Nathan. I am almost certain that guy is a crustacean or arthropod of some sort. An ugly one.

 

[heatherrae]

im proud of you.

its too bad women arnt smart enough to realize the potential fault of their actions untill after they are performed.. you cant delete cheating

cheating? Just to reiterate, there hasn't been any infedility.

With regard to photos, I see plenty of sexy AVI's on here, male and female. I don't really keep tabs on who is in relationships or not. I don't really look at those AVI's and think the people are bad or are somehow disrespectful to their mates. I generally just think they look hot...lol.

 

[Sub-Zero]

cheating? Just to reiterate, there hasn't been any infedility.

With regard to photos, I see plenty of sexy AVI's on here, male and female. I don't really keep tabs on who is in relationships or not. I don't really look at those AVI's and think the people are bad or are somehow disrespectful to their mates. I generally just think they look hot...lol.

fair enough.

just to prevent anyone from calling me a woman hater, i was cockblocking the shit out of wulfgar when it hought he was married

 

[Nathan]

My name is slickdadd, and I am also guilty of posting my box on the internet. Please don't hate me. I'm human, just like the rest of you. Except for Nathan. I am almost certain that guy is a crustacean or arthropod of some sort. An ugly one.

I'm a brachiopod smegma face. And I'm heinous. Get it right.