aha look at ole Mitt Romney here....so you're gonna hold out on this ridiculous stipulation that we put up $5000 matching escrow accounts which no one in their right mind save people like you would even conceive of doing. You have no intention of putting up $5000 to begin with, you just know full well that I can't and this is your out. So i am free now to claim you're a pussy. Or just say you don't feel like going months without posting here. It's one or the other. I would respect answer number 2 cause at least it's honest.