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[SpyWizard]

Run.
I know that sounds harsh, but he has an addiction.
He is not in recovery. Until he gets serious, he will continue to do those things.
And if he is abusive on top of that; well...........run.

ditto..

 

[heavy_duty]

Run like marion jones whe she was on.
you could have had the clap from your previous partner.

 

[Mickey36]

I agree with "get away" from him and "stay away".

 

[ricco561]

rico thats a great avatar pic...shown some luv...

Thanks.

 

[pdaddyII]

Not sure if you are desperate, blinded by love or partially mentally challenged for even having to question this so called quandary.

The guy is a pig, if you stay in contact then you are either a glutton for punishment or are into sadomasochistic behavior.

 

[melni21]

Run like marion jones whe she was on.
you could have had the clap from your previous partner.

Sorry.. but no. I was tested before I was with this one. I had a two year old and had a pap done just before I met him and had sex with him. I have been in two monogomous relationships before him, had three children with the first (never had an std) had my fourth child with my second husband and and never had an std before or after my son was born. Therefore.. NO.. I never had the crap before I met him. I literally had my visit one week before we met.. so there is no way. That is the reason why I freaked out so much. He is the first man I have EVER been with that even hinted of an std. When I saw the website he was looking at for HERPES meds.. I freaked... thats why he even went in. As a result he was diagnosed with herpes, warts, and maybe gon.. but Ididnt look at the results. I just know the doc told me when we went in he had warts.. and he said later he had herpes. The other tests I didnt see. WHATEVER.. it doesnt matter. I got my shot.. and my doc said it will be fine as long as I use protection!!! And believe me.. I WILL!!! This taught me a huge lesson!!!

 

[melni21]

Not sure if you are desperate, blinded by love or partially mentally challenged for even having to question this so called quandary.

The guy is a pig, if you stay in contact then you are either a glutton for punishment or are into sadomasochistic behavior.

okay.. now I'm getting pissed. I agreed with the posts on this. I was with this man for two years. I have been in three monogomous relationships. Maybe I was stupid for NOT DATING AND FUCKING AROUND.. but I dont do that shit. I trust.. I love .. and I have SEX with ONE PERSON!!! I was with him for a while before we had sex. Maybe you fuck around.. and use condoms wiht every girl you are with cuz you want to protect yourself.. I just DONT FUCK AROUND!!! I did find out that he was doign this stuff. He joined a support group for sex addiction. We saw a counselor. We went to church. He is "good" at making people believe he is done. For some reason I kept feelign like something was not right so I checked up on him. And I found things.... I LEFT!!!!! I am NOT with him. He is gone.. gone .. gone. Yes I talk to him. NO WE DO NOT HAVE SEX. I care about him cuz when I love people I cant just STOP lovign them. I still care adn talk to both my exes. I loved them so why wouldnt I. Maybe I am over loving.. overcaring.. but you know what...


I have a MENTALLY CHALLENGED four year old SON and I love him more than my life so for you to even make a comment like that PISSES ME OFF!!!!

You have no idea what my life is like.. and you are in NO FUCKING PLACE TO JUDGE anyone..

 

[pdaddyII]

okay.. now I'm getting pissed. I agreed with the posts on this. I was with this man for two years. I have been in three monogomous relationships. Maybe I was stupid for NOT DATING AND FUCKING AROUND.. but I dont do that shit. I trust.. I love .. and I have SEX with ONE PERSON!!! I was with him for a while before we had sex. Maybe you fuck around.. and use condoms wiht every girl you are with cuz you want to protect yourself.. I just DONT FUCK AROUND!!! I did find out that he was doign this stuff. He joined a support group for sex addiction. We saw a counselor. We went to church. He is "good" at making people believe he is done. For some reason I kept feelign like something was not right so I checked up on him. And I found things.... I LEFT!!!!! I am NOT with him. He is gone.. gone .. gone. Yes I talk to him. NO WE DO NOT HAVE SEX. I care about him cuz when I love people I cant just STOP lovign them. I still care adn talk to both my exes. I loved them so why wouldnt I. Maybe I am over loving.. overcaring.. but you know what...


I have a MENTALLY CHALLENGED four year old SON and I love him more than my life so for you to even make a comment like that PISSES ME OFF!!!!

You have no idea what my life is like.. and you are in NO FUCKING PLACE TO JUDGE anyone..

you really fucking suck at the internet. You made it my place to judge by posing this question on an OPEN forum.

As for the mentally challenged comment, i apologize if you have a slow child but tough shit...that's life. For you to make the following comment posted below and being given solely this piece of information allows me to draw the conclusion that you have some serious issues. I'm guessing that your childhood sucked in some way or another, perhaps your father ran out on you or you had an uncle that liked to play hide the sausage; either way to have made the choices in men that you have speaks volumes in itself. Not only that but then to still be in question about it screams even deeper rooted detriments that you have so clearly projected upon yourself.

"My first husband cheated.... I left.. after 14 years. My second was abusive. This one was BOTH! I am taking time for myself.. but the sex was and is so good.. it's hard to let go."

 

[2evil]

I wonder what a support group for sex addicts is like. Seriously. That sounds like a bad idea...

 

[flex229]

babe,,just leave and don't turn back.

craigslist hookers don't "talk on the phone."

okay.. now I'm getting pissed. I agreed with the posts on this. I was with this man for two years. I have been in three monogomous relationships. Maybe I was stupid for NOT DATING AND FUCKING AROUND.. but I dont do that shit. I trust.. I love .. and I have SEX with ONE PERSON!!! I was with him for a while before we had sex. Maybe you fuck around.. and use condoms wiht every girl you are with cuz you want to protect yourself.. I just DONT FUCK AROUND!!! I did find out that he was doign this stuff. He joined a support group for sex addiction. We saw a counselor. We went to church. He is "good" at making people believe he is done. For some reason I kept feelign like something was not right so I checked up on him. And I found things.... I LEFT!!!!! I am NOT with him. He is gone.. gone .. gone. Yes I talk to him. NO WE DO NOT HAVE SEX. I care about him cuz when I love people I cant just STOP lovign them. I still care adn talk to both my exes. I loved them so why wouldnt I. Maybe I am over loving.. overcaring.. but you know what...


I have a MENTALLY CHALLENGED four year old SON and I love him more than my life so for you to even make a comment like that PISSES ME OFF!!!!

You have no idea what my life is like.. and you are in NO FUCKING PLACE TO JUDGE anyone..