Need some help with the GF

[Smurfy]

one month and no sex?? very odd. def. something is wrong (more than "i just dont feel like it")

at that stage in the game, you should be having all sorts of fun sex

 

[HiDnGoD]

one month and no sex?? very odd. def. something is wrong (more than "i just dont feel like it")

at that stage in the game, you should be having all sorts of fun sex

Yep. Even if you've been living together a year, you should be getting it twice a week.
If she insists that there is nothing wrong, tell her that "Men in a relationship look at sex the same way women look at cuddling. Bottom line, if you don't want to have sex with me, & you don't care that I want to MAKE LOVE with you, that tells me you don't love me. Period."

 

[Sub-Zero]

Yep. Even if you've been living together a year, you should be getting it twice a week.
If she insists that there is nothing wrong, tell her that "Men in a relationship look at sex the same way women look at cuddling. Bottom line, if you don't want to have sex with me, & you don't care that I want to MAKE LOVE with you, that tells me you don't love me. Period."

lolol thatl mindfuck her.

its like entraptment

"If you love me....youl let me touch it"

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Ok ok ok, heres the deal. My gf doesn't want to have sex very often any more. Hell, she doesn't even bug me for oral like she used to, which is very odd. She said it wasn't anything personal, but I'm not so sure. Even if its, not, its been going on for a few weeks now. I can go without sex fine, but it IS a good thing, and I happen to like it... so, any of you have any ideas of getting her in the mood in a regular basis? I know all the romantic stuff is good, but even that doesn't work very well.

For example, when she was asleep, I went out and got a rose in a small vase, some rose petals, and a big teddy bear (about 2.5 ft tall). I had it set up with the bear sitting in the middle of my round table with the rose vase in between the bear's legs and the rose petals surrounding the bear and vase, all around the table. She has a fetish for guys in the cami uniform (you know, the camoflauge stuff), so I went and bought a set for her. I put that on, woke her up, and had her close her eyes as I led her to the table. I then took the rose and gently grazed her skin with the rose, all over her body. After that, I had her open her eyes, and I presented the rose to her, and put it in the vase. She loved every second of it, and was extremely happy... but still, she wasn't in the mood for anything other than cuddleing.

Am I doing something wrong? Any ideas? I'm confused

Awww that is so sweet. Well it could be one of two things. She could be having sex drive issues in which case she should see a Dr. about it. The other thing your not going to like but she may want to break up with you and doesn't know how to do it. Only time I have ever been with a boyfriend and not wanted to have sex is near the end when I knew I wanted things to end.

 

[artrius]

Awww that is so sweet. Well it could be one of two things. She could be having sex drive issues in which case she should see a Dr. about it. The other thing your not going to like but she may want to break up with you and doesn't know how to do it. Only time I have ever been with a boyfriend and not wanted to have sex is near the end when I knew I wanted things to end.

I think its probably the first thing. She told me that even with her exes, she didn't have all that much sex (except for with the last one, where she felt the only way to make him happy and keep him was with sex).

 

[EnderJE]

Ok ok ok, heres the deal. My gf doesn't want to have sex very often any more. Hell, she doesn't even bug me for oral like she used to, which is very odd. She said it wasn't anything personal, but I'm not so sure. Even if its, not, its been going on for a few weeks now. I can go without sex fine, but it IS a good thing, and I happen to like it... so, any of you have any ideas of getting her in the mood in a regular basis? I know all the romantic stuff is good, but even that doesn't work very well.

For example, when she was asleep, I went out and got a rose in a small vase, some rose petals, and a big teddy bear (about 2.5 ft tall). I had it set up with the bear sitting in the middle of my round table with the rose vase in between the bear's legs and the rose petals surrounding the bear and vase, all around the table. She has a fetish for guys in the cami uniform (you know, the camoflauge stuff), so I went and bought a set for her. I put that on, woke her up, and had her close her eyes as I led her to the table. I then took the rose and gently grazed her skin with the rose, all over her body. After that, I had her open her eyes, and I presented the rose to her, and put it in the vase. She loved every second of it, and was extremely happy... but still, she wasn't in the mood for anything other than cuddleing.

Am I doing something wrong? Any ideas? I'm confused

Hookers are cheaper?

 

[Elle.D.]

you should just start acting like you dont care about her and you dont have time for her.
girls like challenges just like you dudes do.
and most girls like to be treated like crap.
from the sound of it, you seem too nice, start coming up with more things to do and keep yourself busy, a few days she will be good to go.

 

[Mammoth2500]

I think its probably the first thing. She told me that even with her exes, she didn't have all that much sex (except for with the last one, where she felt the only way to make him happy and keep him was with sex).

Looks like your on the road to impeding doom. Good luck!

 

[Lestat]

you've been together just a few months but she lives with you?

my guess is that she's feeling suffocated, things came together so fast and now reality is setting in. She still enjoys you, but is questioning herself and her situation.

I don't think she's cheating on you.

 

[Mammoth2500]

Doom i say!! DOOOoOOOOM!!!