Sorry for your loss.... i'm going thru tough times as well... my gf's dad died back in Aug. A month later she totaled her car coming back from a wedding at 2 am.. then 9am finds out that her brother was a passenger in a car and died on impact from the car hitting a tree. Guy in back seat was brain dead in a coma and last week they pulled the plug.
GF basically went into shock when she found out over the phone and a month later still depressed.. On anti depressant meds to help out but 3 big life events all within one month..
Stay strong bro.. thats all i can do as well when she is weak.....