Life sucks........

[lartinos]

Yeah, but you gotta be kinda regretful that you cut into her that bad, I mean deep down nobody wants to cut into other people unless they've been really fucked with... but the more you love somebody the more you are gonna hate them... I'm sure you wanted to be direct with her and really clarify how much she hurt you or whatever and have her feel that pain, but shit I don't ever want that shit to last with someone... I want them to get a glimpse but not so that it impairs them or shit like that...
It all goes back to your world views... I don't believe anything is random, its not predetermined either, but the outward simply reflects the inner's patterns of awareness and so you are gonna be drawn to people for a certain reason... and in that relationship there is a lesson that must be learned... that is why I say go for it... you already are to the point princesa where you know you are going to, all this talk is a formality, you have already crossed threshold... so just be aware and go for it...

I do sometimes question whether it was the right move, but that bitch needed to hear me out. We were together 4 years and I think she actually agreed with alot of the stuff I was saying, but I was flipping the fuck out when I said it. Over time I think she'll come realize i'm not a bad guy, but that shit could take years which sucks. Not that I wanna get back with her right now, but who knows what I'll want down the road. I would honestly be really happy just to be distant friends.

 

[-Ariel-]

I wanna karma bookie whether or not she seeks him out...
heart vs head...
not even close...
+1
logic aint sexy

 

[calveless wonder]

I put it all out there and said hurtful shit when I broke with my EX. I was really mean, and that is probably why she refuses to talk to me at all.
I meant everything I said though so i have no regrets, i did what I had to do.

yep...same exact same shit here bro (including your other post)

personally, you gotta be prepared for it to never happen(talking again). if it does, it does and it has no bearing either way.

 

[calveless wonder]

I wanna karma bookie whether or not she seeks him out...
heart vs head...
not even close...
+1
logic aint sexy

logic is what would prevent women from getting involved in crazy situations (or some men for that matter)

theres no logical reason women love bad boys or date abusive men/scumbags. its all emotional. emotional decisions get you into trouble. period