Life sucks........

[princesa]

Not a lot to tell. He cheated on me and me being young and dumb believed him when he said he wouldn't do it again. Well he did and he always cared more about his friends. I finally got the strength to ignore the heart and follow my brain and do the right thing. The funny thing is after I moved 6 months of being gone he was crying and begging for me to come back. He even dropped out of school a semester because he was too messed up. He broke my heart and in the end I left him with a broken heart. He said it's true you don't know what you have until it's gone.

I had the same experience from my previous relationship, I don't want to make the same mistake twice.
In a way I am glad it happened, I dont regret anything--It did make me soooo much stronger and heartless.

 

[princesa]

why are you bad for each other

I think that we clash, we both have strong personalities. In order for a relationship to work it needs to have some sort of balance. I could already see it, if we were to have a fight it would get pretty nasty. I've learned how to let things go but it takes 2 to tango. I have seen him get angry and its pretty scary, he gets this blank look in his face- i dont want to see it again

 

[lartinos]

i'd like more details as well, loving someone really does suck after awhile.
I'm scared to death to get into another relationship.

 

[-SD-]

I think that we clash, we both have strong personalities. In order for a relationship to work it needs to have some sort of balance. I could already see it, if we were to have a fight it would get pretty nasty. I've learned how to let things go but it takes 2 to tango. I have seen him get angry and its pretty scary, he gets this blank look in his face- i dont want to see it again

MAybe you push his buttons the wrong way and it just puts him off. Ive had women like that who just piss me the hell off to no end but I still see hope with the relationship instead of cutting them loose. If you both have strong personalities sounds like you are equally to blame. Ive dated women with strong personalities and a lot of the time it just bleeds over into "bitchiness", which would piss any decent guy off.

 

[princesa]

i'd like more details as well, loving someone really does suck after awhile.
I'm scared to death to get into another relationship.

I am too...I try to find excuses to push people away
I know no one is perfect, i am not perfect
I am scared to go through that pain again so i run away
I don't want to end up lonely though, right now I am not-i keep busy with work and i have a great family so its a bit easier
But down the road i do want that emotional connection

 

[princesa]

MAybe you push his buttons the wrong way and it just puts him off. Ive had women like that who just piss me the hell off to no end but I still see hope with the relationship instead of cutting them loose. If you both have strong personalities sounds like you are equally to blame. Ive dated women with strong personalities and a lot of the time it just bleeds over into "bitchiness", which would piss any decent guy off.

No we haven't had a fight yet, i think its too soon for that...but i've seen him get angry at somone else, i know how he gets-and i know myself as well. I am just thinking ahead.

 

[-SD-]

Its not going to work out with anyone if you find a way to sabotage the relationship, or find ways to push people away. I used to do that and it didnt matter what sort of girl I was with, I found a way to push her away. Gotta work on yourself first. Its all fear really. People are afraid to get close to people because of past hurt. So if you think you could get close to someone, you find a way to sabotage the relationship so you dont have to get close, which means you wont ever get hurt.

 

[wootoom]

life sucks and then you die

 

[lartinos]

life sucks and then you die

that's why we puff Laa, cuz you never know when ya gonna go
Life's a bitch and then you die...

A little 90's hip-hop LOL. I think that is from AZ.

 

[wootoom]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6rZJ4D-a1bA