Life sucks........

[calveless wonder]

Sorry I can't offer any advice. My ex was bad news for me and it wasn't until I finally moved out of the state that I was able to move on. Best decision I ever made.

do tell....

 

[silverstar1025]

do tell....

Not a lot to tell. He cheated on me and me being young and dumb believed him when he said he wouldn't do it again. Well he did and he always cared more about his friends. I finally got the strength to ignore the heart and follow my brain and do the right thing. The funny thing is after I moved 6 months of being gone he was crying and begging for me to come back. He even dropped out of school a semester because he was too messed up. He broke my heart and in the end I left him with a broken heart. He said it's true you don't know what you have until it's gone.

 

[calveless wonder]

Not a lot to tell. He cheated on me and me being young and dumb believed him when he said he wouldn't do it again. Well he did and he always cared more about his friends. I finally got the strength to ignore the heart and follow my brain and do the right thing. The funny thing is after I moved 6 months of being gone he was crying and begging for me to come back. He even dropped out of school a semester because he was too messed up. He broke my heart and in the end I left him with a broken heart.

oh ok. serves him right

 

[silverstar1025]

oh ok. serves him right

Damn right! Felt good that he felt pain so he knew what I went through FINALLY. My friend said she asked about me 2 yrs after I left and he didn't want to hear my name. lol

 

[txbondsman]

we all wish we could be someone else, or graze in greener pastures once in awhile.
I am married I have the same problem, I keep think about someone else.
Even though I know if I was with that other women , It would all be the same only with a different person.
I guess we all live with silent pains inside

I just remember that the grass isn't greener, it's just different grass....

 

[princesa]

Thank you everyone!

Gonelifting-->Im trying to apply that same rule: dedication and moving on but its easier said then done. I haven't returned his calls for the past two weeks, but the thing is I can't get him off my mind. Maybe that is making me want him even more.
Logically I understand that 2,3 hell a month from now its not gonna go anywhere. I could so see him breaking my heart--I am not giving in (at least im trying not to)

 

[princesa]

most women just give in to their emotions. its easier for a man to just get up and walk away.

he pretty much dig into your emotional side and "has you". you gotta be strong enough to just say no if he's not good for you. delete him out of your life

I walked away from him before...I met him back in december, we starting dating and I tried to push him away...i sort of try to sabotage my relationships if i see that im getting a little too close to someone..
so fast forward i ran into him a month ago and we started seeing eachother again...but in the meantime i found myself thinking about him..
Now i understand how bad we are for eachother but than again I think that I am not even trying, afraid of the reasons i stated above

I dont know...a little confusing right

 

[princesa]

The quickest way to get over a man is to get under another one.



HTH =-)

lol..dig myself a bigger hole right

 

[princesa]

So, you're thinking about cheating on your current SO or do you realize that you should leave your current SO?

No..I am not a cheater

 

[-SD-]

I walked away from him before...I met him back in december, we starting dating and I tried to push him away...i sort of try to sabotage my relationships if i see that im getting a little too close to someone..
so fast forward i ran into him a month ago and we started seeing eachother again...but in the meantime i found myself thinking about him..
Now i understand how bad we are for eachother but than again I think that I am not even trying, afraid of the reasons i stated above

I dont know...a little confusing right

why are you bad for each other