Ladies... please answer!

[jenscats5]

Then you have reached a level I have yet to.

All righty then!!

 

[SoreArms]

the people that it seems to matter to are those that are either hypocritical and judge others despite them having a stained or similar past, or to those that live by what they consider "high standards" that they expect their SO's to fit into. Or the prudish.

I have not been a perfect person in my past, nor am i in the present. So the past is something I really don't care about to judge a person. Similar to what NYCGirl said, who are they today and how do they make me feel about tomorrow, because that is the way I want to be judged. If they can't deal with it, then that's not the type of person I should be with anyways.

 

[KillahBee]

the people that it seems to matter to are those that are either hypocritical and judge others despite them having a stained or similar past, or to those that live by what they consider "high standards" that they expect their SO's to fit into. Or the prudish.

I have not been a perfect person in my past, nor am i in the present. So the past is something I really don't care about to judge a person. Similar to what NYCGirl said, who are they today and how do they make me feel about tomorrow, because that is the way I want to be judged. If they can't deal with it, then that's not the type of person I should be with anyways.

Once again, I judge people on what they have done, not by what they might do. I try not to judge people much based on things that have happened far in the past, particularly if they are clearly a different person, but I would be beyond ignorant to ignore someone's past. Just my opinion. To each his own. I wish I could not care about it, but it doesn't make sense. To me

 

[jenscats5]

Once again, I judge people on what they have done, not by what they might do. I try not to judge people much based on things that have happened far in the past, particularly if they are clearly a different person, but I would be beyond ignorant to ignore someone's past. Just my opinion. To each his own. I wish I could not care about it, but it doesn't make sense. To me

Well then, it's nice to know that, based on my personal "past" you'd probably shoot me on sight......even tho I've changed considerably and am nothing now like what I was 20 years ago.......

 

[Evil_Frisky]

I am not here to judge anyone

Judge and be judged, and I am no fucking saint. I've grown, matured and I see things now that I didn't see when I was younger.

don't judge me for who I was, look at me for who I am.



and KB....... you bother because you me fucker

 

[KillahBee]

Well then, it's nice to know that, based on my personal "past" you'd probably shoot me on sight......even tho I've changed considerably and am nothing now like what I was 20 years ago.......

Believe me, I am not someone who should judge. My point is not that someone is a slut for screwing X number of people. My point is that I PERSONALLY take someone's entire past into consideration when judging/whatever them.

 

[Raina]

I would not want to see sex videos or photos of my partner with other people though. Not at all.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Believe me, I am not someone who should judge. My point is not that someone is a slut for screwing X number of people. My point is that I PERSONALLY take someone's entire past into consideration when judging/whatever them.

So what happens when they take your past into consideration?

 

[KillahBee]

I am not here to judge anyone

Judge and be judged, and I am no fucking saint. I've grown, matured and I see things now that I didn't see when I was younger.

don't judge me for who I was, look at me for who I am.

two things:

1) I expect to be judged. if you don't judge me (based on realistic and true terms) than you are not playing it right, IMO

B) who you were is part of who you are.

 

[jenscats5]

So what happens when they take your past into consideration?

Good question.....