Ladies... please answer!

[Evil_Frisky]

Honestly, if she asks the question no answer will be right. You can say 3 and she'll have a billion questions in the back of her mind.

If you feel the need to tell her, then just say it was more than a hand full or if you feel spunky just be completely honest. don't make up a number cause i guarantee you 20 years later she will ask you the same question and you will be forced to remember that lie.

 

[blut wump]

I was once asked and I told her that I always kept the count at none so that every time could be like it was the first. That got us both layed again and she never repeated the question.

 

[Raina]

She's no more "just another number" to you than you are to her. That whole mindset is childish. Who cares?

 

[nycgirl]

Normal girls ask this stuff all the time.
They don't want "to be another number"...
So I assume not giving an exact number would be best.
Then again... who knows an exact number!?!?

WHAT??

A number is a number. So, if she is 4 that's better than 50.
If you don't give a damn about her if she is #65, you are not going to give a damn about her if she was #2. Everyone has a past. You are in your 30's, surely you have had more than you fair share of ladies.

What matters is today and tomorrow. Not who you slept with in 1994.

 

[NJjuice22]

he is asking because in the real world not every lady is perfectly grounded and wonderful like the elite ladies. you girls are amazing...never jealous, dont care if your the 500th girl i fucked, in bed by 830 pm. wow...

 

[foreigngirl]

Why would someone even ask that question?

What matters most is that you were safe and/or you are disease free.

agree 100 %

 

[Becoming]

tell her that you can't remember because most of them were when you were in a drug induced stupor. then ask her if she has any good shit on her... and tell her you want to bang the creases out of her...

that should take care of it.

 

[nycgirl]

he is asking because in the real world not every lady is perfectly grounded and wonderful like the elite ladies. you girls are amazing...never jealous, dont care if your the 500th girl i fucked, in bed by 830 pm. wow...

I'm sure there are ladies that would care on this board.

I have never asked the question. I don't judge people on that because I have a few skeletons myself and FAR from amazing and perfect.

 

[rudeboyja]

Most girls don't ask that past like 19 years old. Honestly I don't anyone has asked me that since HS.

 

[KillahBee]

Numbers do matter, people. People's pasts are part of who they are. If someone was a whore in college it doesn't make her/him a whore now but it sure as fuck means they have that ability within them.