Ladies... please answer!

[nycgirl]

No, but you did say that it doesn't matter who someone slept with in the past. it absolutely does.

We aren't talking about college or highschool students. Or people in their early 20's. He's in his mid-30's . . . what number is too much? Everyone on this board knows about the people he hung around with and some of the things he has done. I hope she does too. She has to assume that he has slept with more than 5 people. That said, she has to some trust in him that he has let that go and will be committed and faithful to her.

 

[UA_Iron]

There are just as many EF men that bullshit their way around here, lie to chick cause they don't have the balls to say the truth, suck up, flirt to a pt that its disgusting, Make up a perfect lil ol life and how great they are..

and of course, they all have 9" flacid cocks and can fuck for hours on end and shoot their jizz across the room.

But yea, I'm sure that they are just like this in real life too

True, I dont give out the shocker as much as I'd like - I always overplay that one. The neck punches are also a fantasy

The only clique I belong to on EF is the math/physics/engineering/nerd one and we even think we are better than the other. Truth is we're all averagely hung.

 

[*MissFit*]

i give a range but never lie

I am liek Pelvic and raina.. i don't aska question im not willing to accept the answer too

 

[Raina]

Not that I'd pretend he was a virgin but I don't want to know. That's the last thing I'd want to think about. If I asked it would be a different story.

 

[jenscats5]

Here's your response to the question:

"Are you writing a book?? Then leave that chapter out!!"



And as NYCgirl said - what matters most is that you are disease free and, if in a relationship, not sleeping with other people.....

 

[KillahBee]

Damn, you people that say it's better left unsaid are asking for trouble IMO. why would you not want to know everything about your SO?! and acting like that just proves that you really do care A LOT about the numbers.

 

[jenscats5]

Damn, you people that say it's better left unsaid are asking for trouble IMO. why would you not want to know everything about your SO?! and acting like that just proves that you really do care A LOT about the numbers.

I really don't care who my husband slept with before he met me........he was married for 18 years anyway & his ex-wife & I are kinda friends - so I know at least 1 person he slept with. I'm not jealous of the women he slept with in the past at all..........why would I be?



Oh and I'm mostly just grouchy.........most of the time....

 

[KillahBee]

I really don't care who my husband slept with before he met me........he was married for 18 years anyway & his ex-wife & I are kinda friends - so I know at least 1 person he slept with. I'm not jealous of the women he slept with in the past at all..........why would I be?



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Then you have reached a level I have yet to.

 

[nycgirl]

Damn, you people that say it's better left unsaid are asking for trouble IMO. why would you not want to know everything about your SO?! and acting like that just proves that you really do care A LOT about the numbers.

Would I want to know if this person has a criminal record?? Of course, that's why I run a google check and use other sources.

Would I want to know if they have done drugs in the past?? Yes, because for me that's an issue. I won't date anyone that has done something more than weed.

How many people he slept with?? Isn't an issue to me. Maybe at 19, yes. But, as I get older, and hopefully he has sowed his oats & is now ready to committ, it doesn't matter.

 

[KillahBee]

How many people he slept with?? Isn't an issue to me. Maybe at 19, yes. But, as I get older, and hopefully he has sowed his oats & is now ready to committ, it doesn't matter.

Then I somewhat envy you. I could never ignore that part of someone - it's important to me. to each his own though.