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markmark said:
If it were my wife, she would have been dead !
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If it were my wife, she would have been dead !
Skallagrimson
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sort of same issue here. As far as aggression goes, I'm currently living by the principle that if I get angry, then no matter what, I'm going to assume it's the gear and that I'm wrong. It probably appears that I'm in a better mood when I'm on than when I'm off, which might actually be true since I tend to calm down once I walk away from my initial reactions.
Sassy69
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I find it fascinating that you guys put a friggen controlled substance ahead of your wife.....
RE: women's PMS --- sure it sucks, but no we don't have a choice in the matter. You on AAS - you have a choice in the matter. The argument doesn't translate even tho both sides suck when you have to deal w/ someone else's hormone swings.
I'm not being the bitchy chick / guy basher at all - this is a constant issue when you make decisions about your own body that impact the people around you. But it is a call about the value of that relationship and how you manage that relationship. Its respect both for yourself & for the other person.
RE: women's PMS --- sure it sucks, but no we don't have a choice in the matter. You on AAS - you have a choice in the matter. The argument doesn't translate even tho both sides suck when you have to deal w/ someone else's hormone swings.
I'm not being the bitchy chick / guy basher at all - this is a constant issue when you make decisions about your own body that impact the people around you. But it is a call about the value of that relationship and how you manage that relationship. Its respect both for yourself & for the other person.
Inhibitor13
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Sassy69 said:
I hope you dont think my comment was trying to bash you or women in general. I was just venting.
Sassy69 said:
Please....Normal woman bullshit. Listen, I bet this wife of his controlls everthing he does. You don't think its funny that he makes 75% of the income, yet she has say over 100% of the money. This has way more to do than just AAS. I never told the guy to choose the drugs over his wife, I said to stand up to her. One thing I have learned is that women come and go. The only thing in life that can truely make you happy is yourself. Not everyone is willing to live a life of compromise.
I just read the first post over and have to take back some of what I said. I totally missed the fact that the AS effected your mood and patience. If that was the case, I see your wife's argument. Look at it from her perspective. What if she was PMSing constantly for 2-3 months at a time, a few times a year?? And what if she could control these mood changes?? This is not to say you'll be happy go lucky 24/7 without AS, but I think you see where I'm going with this. What I was concerned about was that she was just telling you you couldn't do AS just because she said so. However, I can see where she's coming from. The other circumstances that would justify her actions would be if you guys were trying to have a baby and you were on gear.
However, I think there's still some underlying control issues here, not to mention her drinking habits you alluded to. Personally, if it were me and she showed signs of a drinking PROBLEM (that doesnt mean that she cant hold her liqour, I mean habitual drinking to the point that it was effecting her life, health, etc), I'd have to get a divorce, especially if there are no kids in the picture yet. Alcoholism is one ugly disease. It kills you slowly, in every aspect of your life and the lives of those around you. Bringing up a child in an alcoholic household should be a crime punishable by death.
However, I think there's still some underlying control issues here, not to mention her drinking habits you alluded to. Personally, if it were me and she showed signs of a drinking PROBLEM (that doesnt mean that she cant hold her liqour, I mean habitual drinking to the point that it was effecting her life, health, etc), I'd have to get a divorce, especially if there are no kids in the picture yet. Alcoholism is one ugly disease. It kills you slowly, in every aspect of your life and the lives of those around you. Bringing up a child in an alcoholic household should be a crime punishable by death.
Having been through this my best advice is to wait her out. Don't come at her with your tantrum. Tell her you've got something that will calm you down much more and it'll be different this time. If it's not you'll stop it right away. Then get some P Seven.
Just ease her mind and give her a couple days. You'll get your way.
Just ease her mind and give her a couple days. You'll get your way.
macrophage69alpha
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medrep said:
perhaps you should consider a cutting regimen that does not make you as moody. siphoning money often leads to rather unpleasant fights, better to be upfront and also compromising.
there are plenty of cutting cycles that do not affect mood as much. Often slower methodologies, but still as effective. both diet and drug wise.
Sassy69
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Inhibitor13 said:
Completely understand --- same w/ any situation where you have to live closely w/ someone else. Its one thing if there is just something naturally about the person that is part of them, but if its something that they CHOOSE to do, then its up for discussion. And that's where it is an integral part of the relationship that is either important enough to work out via communication or compromise or its more important than the relationship & you move on.
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