Just found out that my VERY recent ex-girlfriend is fucking my best friend!!!!

[Monkey_Power]

Things to do:

Double check yoru sources.. this is a friend you have had for quite some time, so you need to make sure you are perfectly sure they are dating.

Delima:

Just because he is your best friend by no way means he can't date your ex girlfriends. It may be a unwritten rule of conduct, but lets face it we all have different rules we follow. I feel i should say, I wouldnt date any of my friends ex-girlfriends but that is just me

Suggestions:

Assuming #1 is done and you are sure there are a multitude of things you can do and what the reprocutions are

1) Beat his ass! As pissed off as you are, there is no need to get pyshical. Obviously you can pound this dude easily but you can also get sued for everything you own.


2) Tell him face to face. I recommend this one. Sit him down, talk about all the good times you have had with him, and ask him about things friends dont do to other friends. Lead him into a trap, and then see if he tells you. Either way after it comes out, yell a bit (cuz i am sure you will anyway), and walk away.


I am sure your hurt.... but #2 maybe the best option for you

 

[diesel420]

Alright people, Thanks for the replies so far. I just got back from the apartment where My supposed friend lives where i knew they would both be tonight. As I walked into the door, my supposed "boy" was waiting to shake my hand. Needless to say actually seeing him sent my adrenaline racing. I glared at him and ignored his upraised hand and went immediatley to "Lisa" my ex. I told her we needed to speak privately and took her out to the balcony slamming the bay door in the process. Out side I just paced back and forth while garing at her. I didn't know where to start. "what's wrong" she asks me. I looked at her and said this "how long did you think you could keep this secret?"
"what?" she replied, "what are you talking about?"
"You fucking "Bob" how long did you think you could keep this secret?" The look of shock on her face was pricless. She utterd um a few times and said " I don't know" No denial, just a resigned and shocked, "I dunno". With the confirmation right there I then went loose with a verbal assault of all the things you should not call a female. What really hit home though was when I told her (BTW- she has a 2 year old son, in custody of the father) When I told her that I hope she never gets her son back, that she's a horrible mother and never should have given birth in the first place. What can I say, the truth hurts and she slapped me in the face. I honestly didn't feel a thing. i got nose to nose with her and asked her if that felt good and told her to do it again. So she did with the other hand. I just started to laugh at her which enraged her even more. I let her smack me with a quick little combo once again before I mushed her backwards and Haucked a nice big loog right in her face!! It felt great!! I then went inside, told and of "bob" I wanted to maim him, but told him he wasn't worth it. I told both That I wanted them out of my life forever and that i hope it was worth it you fuckin' low life scumbags. Then I left. I feel better now, a little. i think I shoulda hit him though. Just once right in his grill. I kinda feel like a let him a little too easy. Sorry for the long read guys, but if you read it thanks for letting me vent. People never cease to amaze me with the shit they pull. Peace -diesel420

 

[The_Mexican]

Whats the big deal??? They arent cheating on you, so relax. Sure, I guess it would have been nice of them to let you know, and yes, they are in the wrong.... but really, its not that big of a deal.

 

[Frackal]

Alright people, Thanks for the replies so far. I just got back from the apartment where My supposed friend lives where i knew they would both be tonight. As I walked into the door, my supposed "boy" was waiting to shake my hand. Needless to say actually seeing him sent my adrenaline racing. I glared at him and ignored his upraised hand and went immediatley to "Lisa" my ex. I told her we needed to speak privately and took her out to the balcony slamming the bay door in the process. Out side I just paced back and forth while garing at her. I didn't know where to start. "what's wrong" she asks me. I looked at her and said this "how long did you think you could keep this secret?"
"what?" she replied, "what are you talking about?"
"You fucking "Bob" how long did you think you could keep this secret?" The look of shock on her face was pricless. She utterd um a few times and said " I don't know" No denial, just a resigned and shocked, "I dunno". With the confirmation right there I then went loose with a verbal assault of all the things you should not call a female. What really hit home though was when I told her (BTW- she has a 2 year old son, in custody of the father) When I told her that I hope she never gets her son back, that she's a horrible mother and never should have given birth in the first place. What can I say, the truth hurts and she slapped me in the face. I honestly didn't feel a thing. i got nose to nose with her and asked her if that felt good and told her to do it again. So she did with the other hand. I just started to laugh at her which enraged her even more. I let her smack me with a quick little combo once again before I mushed her backwards and Haucked a nice big loog right in her face!! It felt great!! I then went inside, told and of "bob" I wanted to maim him, but told him he wasn't worth it. I told both That I wanted them out of my life forever and that i hope it was worth it you fuckin' low life scumbags. Then I left. I feel better now, a little. i think I shoulda hit him though. Just once right in his grill. I kinda feel like a let him a little too easy. Sorry for the long read guys, but if you read it thanks for letting me vent. People never cease to amaze me with the shit they pull. Peace -diesel420

A true badass. Props to you brotha.

 

[diesel420]

The mexican,
I highly disagree with you. There are plenty of men and women in this world to be with. He was my best friend since 5th fucking grade. Like I said before, in the world of "90210" or "melrose place" this kinda thing is acceptable. But I'm sorry if I have some sense of Honor in a world today where such a thing is looked upon as a weekness.

 

[KAYNE]

DEISEL

I FEEL YA MAN. BUT YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF, HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND IS HE REALLY IF HE WOULD DO THIS TO YOU. I WOULDNT HOOK UP WITH ANY OF MY BOYZ EX'S. ITS UP TO YOU HOW YOU HANDLE THIS BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, YOU AND HE WILL MOST LIKELY BE FRIENDS AGAIN ONE DAY. THE PART ABOUT HER TELLING YOU SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU BACK WHILE SCREWING HIM WOULD SET ME OFF TO. HONESTLY, I WOULD HAVE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM FOR THAT REASON AND MADE HER WATCH. AT THE VERY LEAST, HE SHOULD HAVE COME TO YOU AND TOLD YOU ABOUT IT TO TRY TO KEEP THINGS ON A CIVIL LEVEL. HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A MAN ABOUT THE SITUATION. HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT MAN. LATE.


KAYNE

 

[KAYNE]

MEXICAN

ITS EASY TO SIT HERE AND TYPE THAT BUT WHEN FEELINGS ARE INVOLVED, ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE.


DEISEL
WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH HER (IF YOU DONT MIND ME ASKING)? ALSO, HOW GOODLOOKING IS SHE? IF SHE IS TOTALLY FINE, THAT MAKES IT THAT MUCH HARDER.


KAYNE

 

[Jimsbbc]

some peeps think just because they have known you for a long time means they are entitled to a piece of your GF's ass.

Sounds like this guy would have fucked her and then tried to tell you what a favor he did you.

Mad props for your style, bro

 

[diesel420]

Kayne- She is pretty nice, I've had hotter but she's pretty nice. I broke up with her becuse she was putting way too much pressure on me about marriage and the like. I had asked her multiple times to stop and she would always find a way to bring it up or sneak it in to a comment or conversation it had no place being. We just startd to fight all the time and I became unhappy with the relationship. I told her I needed some time apart to think things out and come to terms with where I stood. But she obviously moved right along.

frackal- thanks for the props

jimsbbc- Thanks for the support bro.

 

[KAYNE]

IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL ANY BETTER, I JUST BROKE UP WITH MY EX AND NOW SHE IS SCREWING 3 BLACK DUDES. AND THE FUNNY THING ABOUT IT IS, I DONT EVEN CARE!!! SHE WAS ONLY GOOD FOR ONE THING ANYWAY. I DID IT ALL FOR THE NOOKIE!!! LOL


KAYNE