Just found out that my VERY recent ex-girlfriend is fucking my best friend!!!!

[havoc]

It was brought to my attention tonight by multiple reliable sources that my very recent X-girl of the past year and two months and my best friend of 12 years are fucking. I am absolutely ENRAGED!!!! What the fuck!!! This is not 90210 or fucking Melrose Place!!!! I broke up with her, but still. There are plenty of guys and girls in this wide world and they need to fuck each other??? And keep it secret from me???? I am currently debating what to do. Should I beat the shit out of him? I would like to and I could easily, he's 5'11" and 150 lbs. soaking wet. And I'd like to give my ex a peice of my mind and spit a huge loogie right in her face after downing an IsoPure so I have a real nice fat one for her. Please people, give me some advice. This really pisses me off. I think the thing that bugs me the most is that this whole time she's been telling me how much she loves me and wants me back, but at the same time she's fucking my best friend???!!!???!!! Not only that, but last week I had a moment of weekness, I am in mid-cycle and was VERY horny one night, we got it on that night much to my regret. I mean who knows, the night before that she could have been sucking my boy's dick and then she's gonna kiss my lips??!!??!!?!! ARRGGHHHH!!!! That thought makes me want to vomit and KILL people!!! What should I do with this situation???

Damn man, funny post in a way, sorry you are in this situation, I understand when you say that there are plenty of men and women out there, thing is is that these two have probably been thinking about each other for awhile now, so after it was over they both just said "fuck it, its time to do this", they are both thinking with there sex drive. I have done the same thing to a real good friend, my explanation was that "it is over between you and her" , which it was and I was thinking with my dick, if I could go back and do it again I would do it better. Again, sorry you are in this situation, however, you and girl are no more and when a man and a woman are horny , the sky is the limit. peace

 

[JohnnyO]

Almost sounds like the plot of "She's the One" where this guy is cheating on his wife with his brother's ex-fiance.

 

[MrMuscle]

She is your ex, not your property. I agree its shitty, but no use making antything more out of it. If you dislike the actions done, just break your friendship. No use getting all up in a knot. You think she would never fuck another guy? She allready has a kid, that she DIDNT get custody over, you should think that would give you a pointer to what kind of a person this is. next time, you may wanna find a better girl. Just let it drop. You are hard working and have have achivements of your own. ocus on them for a while, and yu'll soon get over this shit.

Stay strong, and above all, keep your head screwed on right. Most girls aint worth but a buck-o-five. I guarantee you this wont be the last time you get screwed. Shit happends.

 

[Longhorn85]

Not only that, but last week I had a moment of weekness, I am in mid-cycle and was VERY horny one night, we got it on that night much to my regret. I mean who knows, the night before that she could have been sucking my boy's dick

There is clear solution here to solidify your friendship and diss your ex-girl. To sum it up in one word: TAGTEAM

 

[FreakMonster]

I agree that he has a right to be pissed. His best-friend and ex-GF were fucking eachother behind his back and were keeping it a secret from him acting like nothing was going on. THAT RIGHT there deserves a beat down on the best friend. I don't care what anyone says.

Obviously diesel loved this girl and what she did was shitty.

Icon and Millhouse. I hope one day you break up with a girl you truly love because when I'm there to fuck her brains out you better not come knocking on my door!!!!

 

[thefantom1]

Like was said before.... X-them both out of your life.... your Ex actually did you a favor by allowing your "Best Friends" colors really come out... He was not the person you thought he was...same shit happened to me...best friends since 4 years old.... and he did the same shit.. (we had broken up 3 days before...because of him) and he was nailing her...they are married now but I haven't talked to either of them since..... been 10 years......

 

[rnch]

i'm suprised nobody has thought of this:

ever heard of a "grudge fuck"?

she is boinking your best friend to get back at you for breaking up with her. she knows who your friends are, she figures if she is miserable over the breakup she will hurt you anyway she can.

and she has!

if you beat up or cut your friend outta your life, you are doing just what she wants you to do.

she's NOT your gf anymore; this is your wounded male pride making you feel bad over this. she has shown her true colors, dude, you're lucky to be rid of this bitch.

keep your bud, find another gf worthy of you and MOVE ON!!!!

 

[c-sharp minor]

Dude, I was in this exact situation. My best friend always lusted after my gf. He was also jealous that I got 10 women to his 1. He was also distrustful of his own gf's around me.

Well, the one woman I was in love with dumps me and 2 fucking days later he jumps right in there to fuck her. Talk about low class.


Needless to say, I haven't spoken to this ignorant bastard, (my supposesd best friend), in 8 years.


People will let you down 90% of the time if given the chance. At least, that has been my experience.

 

[bwood]

Diesel,
Make good with your friend
then,,,,,mention how you had
to break up with her due to her
insistance on oral cleanup
immediately after anal intrusion.
Act serious and this will fuck him up!

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I haven't read all of the replies; but here's the deal. If you can establish that there is truth to this, then fuck them both. Neither are your friend.

You are comfortable with him, you've known him for 12 years, et. al. But he is not your friend. How people act at their weakest moment, not when things are good, is the true measure of character. (If it's true) He's lying to you, betraying you, probably talking shit about you behind your back with her since she's giving him a piece -- you can bet that for sure he's not defending you if she says something shitty...

Like somebody said earlier, he is a piece of shit (if true) and he (and she) should be ex-communicated. Never another word. Nothing. Fuck him.

Not fair, but neither is life. Move on. You can find friends and girlfriends that have the capacity to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Look at this as an opportunity.

P.S. To catch him, just call him, or confront him and say "Girl's name" told me everything -- how could you as my friend be fucking her? And while I was going out with her?" See if he spills. Don't approach him in a threatening manner (hard, I know) but rather in a non-confrontational, you are my best-friend, we can work this out, but I need to know the truth manner. As soon as he admits to it. Boom, you're out. If he won't admit to it, IMMEDIATELY (before he has time to call her) call her and try the same routine. Because she's not attached to you anymore, she may tell you. (However, her word is suspect to say the least). The best bet is to get him to admit it. But, on the other hand, if its coming from two friends that you trust implicitly, then it's very likely true. Have they actually seen it, or are they just drawing conclusions?

Either way. Keep your head up.

And if you find out it is true, seriously, get them both out of your life -- they are not good for you.