Just found out that my VERY recent ex-girlfriend is fucking my best friend!!!!

[gymrat]

That's a tough situation that I hope i never have to be in.

But i would of handled it differently. I'm just not an agressive person even when i"m angry.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

It was brought to my attention tonight by multiple reliable sources that my very recent X-girl of the past year and two months and my best friend of 12 years are fucking.

Who cares? Go live your own life and stop worrying about others.

 

[FreakMonster]

Threads like this make me not want to trust any ho's ever.

 

[Milhouse]

Well first of all let me clarify a few things
Did this ever happen to me?
Yes a couple of times.

Did I act like an idiot too?
Yes I did.

Did I gain anything from the experience?
Nope

Would I have wasted my time pulling shit like this again?
Nope.

Have I ever gone out with any of my friends ex girlfriends?
Nope

Would I?
If opportunity knocked and they were finished why the hell not? You only live once.In all fairness I would tell my friend too. I think I am being his friend by telling him and him accepting it now or later tells me he is a friend too.I do agree that what diesals friend did by not telling him was not kosher but maybe he did now know how.

Another point. All you guys who are going "fuck him up, thats wrong blah blah fucking blah" ok like you guys would not fucking hesitate to bang your ex's little female friends if opportunity knocked.

Point being unless you are married to the person then once you break up well who gives a shit who she bangs?Marriage being different as it is a commitment way bigger then some fucking guy going out with your ex- GF, not wife, not mother of your kids, your FUCKING EX GIRLFRIEND.get over it.

Love and lust are weird things and when opportunity knocks so dont ever say "never would I do something like this"

Finally my personal opinion and with my own experiences of getting out of control and doing/saying irrational things tells me that the REAL REASON we get riled up because our buddy goes out/fucks our ex gf has less to do with the fact that our buddys are doing this but more to the fact that we are afraid(read insecure) that maybe he will be more sucessful with her then we are.
I think that point makes alot of sense.

 

[p0ink]

go to his house and poke holes in all of his condoms. maybe he can get her aids and she can have his aids baby.

 

[NY Muscle]

Finally my personal opinion and with my own experiences of getting out of control and doing/saying irrational things tells me that the REAL REASON we get riled up because our buddy goes out/fucks our ex gf has less to do with the fact that our buddys are doing this but more to the fact that we are afraid(read insecure) that maybe he will be more sucessful with her then we are.
I think that point makes alot of sense.

No REAL friend does that shit...if you would even consider dating one of your boys ex girls then you are scum...i would NEVER even THINK of it, dating my boys ex..and if i did they have EVERY RIGHT to want to beat my ass...I guess being Italian and raised the way i was and having the notion of RESPECT instilled upon me makes me the way i am today.

And it has NOTHING to do with insecurity..i could give 2 shits if my ex banged someone i didnt know..good for her...but banging my friend..um no..that is unacceptable.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Well, they're still fucking (she's fucking them both); and she's still saying she wants to be with him, so I think the situation is not so cut and dry as if she and he were completely split.

 

[Milhouse]

No REAL friend does that shit...if you would even consider dating one of your boys ex girls then you are scum...i would NEVER even THINK of it, dating my boys ex..and if i did they have EVERY RIGHT to want to beat my ass...I guess being Italian and raised the way i was and having the notion of RESPECT instilled upon me makes me the way i am today.

And it has NOTHING to do with insecurity..i could give 2 shits if my ex banged someone i didnt know..good for her...but banging my friend..um no..that is unacceptable.

No that does not make me scum at all, just honest cause you guys who say never well like they say 'never say never"

The way I look at it is this. If it did not work out between me and her well who am I to stand in her way or anyone elses(including a friends)? No matter how pissed off I would get(And I would be lying if I said I would not get pissed off, but I am mature enough to get over it eventually) I am still not with her in the end anyways.

I mean how many of you guys including myself have ever said "he is my friend but he does not realize how lucky he is and if I had the chance I could treat her better" or something similar along those lines.
Main reason I would not go out with 99% of the people I know ex gf's is because I have already heard or seen how spun some of these chicks are so why would I want to bring these bitches misery into my life.

But all the dudes saying "yeah I would beat my friends ass lemme ask a question. What if your friend in question was the resident psycho of your group of friends and you know no matter how hard you tried he would end up beating your ass. I think these guys would not be saying shit because at that point it would not be worth it.

And dont anybody tell me that they are capable of winning a fight with anyone they go against cause now your really bullshitting me.

Besides I enjoy playing devils advocate here.

 

[NY Muscle]

But all the dudes saying "yeah I would beat my friends ass lemme ask a question. What if your friend in question was the resident psycho of your group of friends and you know no matter how hard you tried he would end up beating your ass. I think these guys would not be saying shit because at that point it would not be worth it.

Thats why they made bats... I have a few friends that i wouldnt even joke about fighting and they know it cause they are sick fucks and ive seen some of them take on 4 guys alone like it was a walk in the park..they also know id crack their skull waiting by their house at 6am and thats why they would NEVER piss me off... There are also certain people that I wouldnt even get my hands dirty with because (no matter if they can fight or not) they are such scum or did something so bad that a baseball bat beatdown is warrented.


Let me ask you...if some dude raped your mom...and you know you cant kick his ass...like Hulkster says "watcha gonna do?"

 

[Milhouse]

Let me ask you...if some dude raped your mom...and you know you cant kick his ass...like Hulkster says "watcha gonna do?"

Obviously that is a different situation then some dude poking your ex girlfriend.