Judge: Father is to have sole physical custody, Mother is granted supervised visitation. **************

[heatherrae]

Yeah no doubt. I just think that the x was trying to make it seem like I was the bad guy. She was the one that KNEW she was to be drug tested and did coke anyway - how stupid can you be? If *THAT* isn't and indication that your drug use is definetly out of your control / clearly an addiciton issue - then I don't know what is.

Her mom just kept saying to me - is there anything you can do? Can you talk to the judge to ask them to let K take another test in a month - because I am sure if she does it will come back clean, etc, etc, etc.

Like the judge is going to delay to let her test again. It's his job to be a hard ass and enforce the rules.

Grandma feels she is doing the right thing by helping her daughter, but the daughter has got to start being proactive and facing her addiction. The judge is doing his job well, it seems. Hopefully, your ex will clean up her act for your daughter's sake.

 

[jh1]

Grandma feels she is doing the right thing by helping her daughter, but the daughter has got to start being proactive and facing her addiction. The judge is doing his job well, it seems. Hopefully, your ex will clean up her act for your daughter's sake.

Yeah. I agree.

Everyone has their role.

 

[Smurfy]

Yeah no doubt. I just think that the x was trying to make it seem like I was the bad guy. She was the one that KNEW she was to be drug tested and did coke anyway - how stupid can you be? If *THAT* isn't and indication that your drug use is definetly out of your control / clearly an addiciton issue - then I don't know what is.

Her mom just kept saying to me - is there anything you can do? Can you talk to the judge to ask them to let K take another test in a month - because I am sure if she does it will come back clean, etc, etc, etc.

Like the judge is going to delay to let her test again. It's his job to be a hard ass and enforce the rules.

yes and how many chances did your ex have to get it right? more than enough IMO. this is definitely on HER not anyone else. she's an adult and a parent and it's time she began acting like it.