Is this strange?

[Stefka]

I recently started talking to my ex again because he had some very bad news about a mutual friend.
I hated this guy.
I didn't talk to him for a year because I hate him so much.
So I've been talking to him for the last few days - mostly related to the bad news.
And I have to go back to the town where he lives (again, for reasons related to the bad news).
So I called earlier this evening...
And his girlfriend answered the phone.
And I talked with her for like an hour.
I've never met her in person.
But she seems pretty awesome.
At the moment I like her way better than the ex.
So I'm to meet up with them soon.
This should be a strange meet up, no?

 

[layinback]

I recently started talking to my ex again because he had some very bad news about a mutual friend.
I hated this guy.
I didn't talk to him for a year because I hate him so much.
So I've been talking to him for the last few days - mostly related to the bad news.
And I have to go back to the town where he lives (again, for reasons related to the bad news).
So I called earlier this evening...
And his girlfriend answered the phone.
And I talked with her for like an hour.
I've never met her in person.
But she seems pretty awesome.
At the moment I like her way better than the ex.
So I'm to meet up with them soon.
This should be a strange meet up, no?

stefka, my wife and ex are best friends. they go shopping together, have a drink together and talk on the horn endlessly. is that strange? most say yes.......i say "cool".

 

[javaguru]

I didn't read your post but I say no...

 

[Stefka]

stefka, my wife and ex are best friends. they go shopping together, have a drink together and talk on the horn endlessly. is that strange? most say yes.......i say "cool".

But I HATE this guy.
It is a strange kind of hate though.
He is bad but charming.
He has done some bad bad things.
We went through so much.
It is easy to hate him when I dont have to talk to him/see him.
But when we talk he seems like a long lost friend - someone who was there through the worst of times (even though he put me in these worst of times).
But now I dont know what to think.
Part of me thinks that maybe he is getting better and that the new awesome girlfriend can keep him on the right track.
Most of me knows that he is still fucked up and that no matter how awesome the new girlfriend is he will still end up dragging her down.
I dont want to see that happen to anyone else.
I have no idea what I will be getting myself into by going back there.
I don't make good decisions when I am dealing with bad news.

 

[PICK3]

he's cheating on you

 

[Stefka]

he's cheating on you

Problem is, I'm kind of sad that he might be cheating on her.
Asshole.

 

[PICK3]

Problem is, I'm kind of sad that he might be cheating on her.
Asshole.

I'm sorry.

I didn't read your post either. Perhaps if you post tit pics ...

 

[Stefka]

I'm sorry.

I didn't read your post either. Perhaps if you post tit pics ...

Sorry, no tit pics... not even in my time of grieving.

 

[Cal_21]

Sorry, no tit pics... not even in my time of grieving.

Wow....selfish much?....lol. Totally kidding. Sounds like a strange situation indeed. Good luck Do you find you still have feelings for him? Is that what makes it seem strange? I just sort of got that vibe the way you described him.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I recently started talking to my ex again because he had some very bad news about a mutual friend.
I hated this guy.
I didn't talk to him for a year because I hate him so much.
So I've been talking to him for the last few days - mostly related to the bad news.
And I have to go back to the town where he lives (again, for reasons related to the bad news).
So I called earlier this evening...
And his girlfriend answered the phone.
And I talked with her for like an hour.
I've never met her in person.
But she seems pretty awesome.
At the moment I like her way better than the ex.
So I'm to meet up with them soon.
This should be a strange meet up, no?

nothing good can possibly come from that.