I want to fall in love..........sigh

[Bikini Mod]

As we put emphasis on being a loving person, which is something we can control and less empahasis on receiving love, which is something we can't control - you will find out that there is plenty of love in your life. And soon you'll discover one of the greatest secrets in the world. Love is it's own reward.

Probably THE WISEST words expressed on this thread yet.

 

[ken343]

bikinimom

Thanks what can i say, i just try and live my life to the best i can and give love and compassion to others who have less.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I feel a big part of falling in love is the way you feel about yourself when your around the other person.......

My last boyfriend made me feel so beautiful and special, and thats one reason why I fell for him.....but we were never in LOVE.

 

[Taps]

I feel a big part of falling in love is the way you feel about yourself when your around the other person.......

My last boyfriend made me feel so beautiful and special, and thats one reason why I fell for him.....but we were never in LOVE.

So what's the differnce between falling for someone and falling in love with them?

Your post makes the most sense out of all the others on this thread, so I figured you'd be a good person to ask.

 

[ken343]

Yeah I'm confused jennifer, BFL chick


So he made u feel beautiful and special and you fell for him, but u were never in love.

I'm confused soo what was it, lost or convenice, or was it what u just needed at that time.

 

[Longhorn85]

Yeah I'm confused jennifer, BFL chick


So he made u feel beautiful and special and you fell for him, but u were never in love.

I'm confused soo what was it, lost or convenice, or was it what u just needed at that time.

Could it be because he wasn't hitting that thang?

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

So what's the differnce between falling for someone and falling in love with them?

Your post makes the most sense out of all the others on this thread, so I figured you'd be a good person to ask.

You know, I'm not sure........I just know that we were never in love----

When I think of falling in love, I imagine that you would sit by each other on the couch on Valentines day, lol *little personal experience*

I have come to realize, that my relationship with my last boyfriend was a great friendship that brought alot of joy and comfort into my life----he was a great FRIEND, and still is. But when it came down to passion and having the feeling that you never want to leave, well, that's another story.

Wish it was cut and dry, but I'm assuming its just a feeling you have for someone. You can love them, but to be in love, that's different story (I'm guessing, hell if I know!)

 

[velvett]

Jen,


Don't ponder it too much. It seems as though the more you search for it the farth it skips away from you.

If I've learned anything over the years it's that only when you are truly comfortable with yourself and your inside shines as brightly on the outside people start to flock to you out of no where.

...just a thought.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Jen,


Don't ponder it too much. It seems as though the more you search for it the farth it skips away from you.

If I've learned anything over the years it's that only when you are truly comfortable with yourself and your inside shines as brightly on the outside people start to flock to you out of no where.

...just a thought.

Yes, this is very true

I'm not searching for love.......But I would like to fall in love SOMEDAY.....

I'm actually so busy with my life, that its easy to forget about love. I have so many goals that I'm working on, its easy to get to consumed .......

Some people ignore love all their life and it makes it really hard for them to let it back in, and they become forever single (which is not a bad thing, just a point)

Getting too stuck in your ways can actually make it harder to let someone in ------it might "mess with your scedual"........I really don't want to end up like that.....

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I should point out that I'm not pondering this very much really. I watched a movie and it brought out some emotions...thus, I started this thread