People say love is not something that we are but it is something that we do, and I do agree. I too would like to be in love again, but I think so many of us are scared of been hurt. (As it is said it is not the fall that would kill you but the landing).
It has taken me a long time to truly get it that you have to be 1st happy on your own, before u can truly b happy with some another.
So many people confuse love with LUST and NEED. We see so many people jump from one relationship to another, never really asking themselves why didn’t this work. I'm I the problem. So many people think oh when I meet the one my life would be perfect all my fears and insecurities will go away. The sad truth is that it never does, we have too first (BE THE PERSON WE WANT TO ATTRACT). I was watching oprah (yeah yeah I know but she's good) and this called NEALE DONALD WALSCH, he wrote (A conversation with god)
He said this and I quote.
You cannot give to another what u do not have.
So if it's love u want more of; call someone who has less love than u, to have more love.
Ifs it's compassion u think is missing from your life find someone who has less compassion. And b the sauces of compassion for them.
What ever it is u would seek to have more of, find someone who has even less and be the sauces of it. Be the sauces of what you would choose for yourself in the life of another. And you would experience that you've always had it, it's always been there. And the more u give away the more it comes back to u. And the more u realize you've always that to give. (Love, compassion, Money) whatever it may be.
So whatever is missing from your life find someone who has even less of it and be the sauces. And then is just a matter of time before you meet that person u were meant to be with.
That is something I carry with me in my heart