havoc said:
A "man" must trust himself first. A "man" will not get involved with anything that he cannot carry out to the fullest or be certain that the other or others involved will not suffer in any shape, form or fashion. Nothing guarantees this perfection I speak of, since that is fact, the chance one might take is not taken, due to complete respect for the other. The other might look at it in a different fashion, however, it the most responsible thing a "man" can do, his actions are what they are because of his outlook toward you. peace
Havoc - may I respectfully say that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever read! "Complete respect"???? Once two people become involved the road cannot be untravelled. Respect is telling the other person EXACTLY what you feel, it is being HONEST. If one chooses to not take the chance then that must be said. Far too many times I see you men with your noble intentions leaving a woman to wonder, you pull her close only to push her away without warning or explanation. It is not the role of a "man" to shelter a woman from ANYTHING - that is what parents do for children and we are not children.
Relationships of any type should not be THAT DAMN DIFFICULT!!! They are what they are and should be called as such and if that isn't what is going on then there is really no relationship at all, only a game.