I met a girl, but she kissed another man, and I'm heartbroken

[Jon79]

I've met this girl online, and she's a Christian like me, a virgin like myself (and 27 and gorgeous which makes it all the more remarkable) and she is fun to talk to.

We hungout once, and she has a great sense of humor and is pretty laid back and I really like her. She is absolutely gorgeous too (i think i already said that). its rare that a woman as pretty as her wants to hangout with me.

She tells me about all these men online that want to date her, and how shes not looking for a relationship and wants friends, but if a relationship comes along then great.

But everytime she tells me about these guys that she hangs out with sometimes, it really stings and makes me feel bad they get to have her.

Last night she told me that a guy kissed her, that she didnt want to kiss him, but he put it on her, so she kissed him back for a few minutes. When she said a few minutes, i immediately thought she must have wanted to kiss him to a degree.
But when she told me that a guy kissed her, it hurt me really bad. I can't think straight the last couple days.

I want to tell her how i feel but i dont want to scare her off?
I also dont want to be in pain anymore.

what do i do? i know its sad that i get attached to women this easily, but the pain is still there. sometimes i wonder if i will ever be able to date women easily, with a fickle and jealous heart like mine.

bro tell her how u feel

if she runs she runs

otherwise you will keep hangin around hoping something will come of it and it will drive u nuts she dates othe guys....so it will save u alot of pain in the long run to just tell her what u think and see what happens

 

[the_clockwork]

you should just delete your life

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

how the fuck can this cause you pain wtf..

had she kissed you.. then kissed another guy.. sure maybe..

seriously.. I don't know how old you are.. but you seem like 16 or something..

grow the fuck up.. seriously.. please..

not to be rude or anything..

stop overanalyzing everything.. trust me as someone who overanalyzed everything.. it does you absolutely no good.. just learn to relax..

and no.. I really fucking doubt you'll get an assualt charge for kissing a girl.. it's not really forced.. if she's pushing you back and beating on your chest and you're still trying to kiss her then maybe that might land you with a charge.. but other then that probably not..

you worry too much about everything..

like shit man.. do you even enjoy life?

 

[samoth]

okay, i hear what you are saying, about how sometimes women are contradictory, but at the same time you wanna be careful right?

Forced kissing, or anything sexual could be considered assault, right? I dont wanna get charged with anything, or make a woman feel bad.

All joking aside... there's a world of difference between forced (i.e. assult) and forced (i.e. she wanted it).

You gotta use the psychology, broly. Didn't you pay attention in your abnormal psych class? That should cover most female's behavior.


HTH

 

[Smurfy]

how the fuck can this cause you pain wtf..

had she kissed you.. then kissed another guy.. sure maybe..

seriously.. I don't know how old you are.. but you seem like 16 or something..

grow the fuck up.. seriously.. please..

not to be rude or anything..

stop overanalyzing everything.. trust me as someone who overanalyzed everything.. it does you absolutely no good.. just learn to relax..

and no.. I really fucking doubt you'll get an assualt charge for kissing a girl.. it's not really forced.. if she's pushing you back and beating on your chest and you're still trying to kiss her then maybe that might land you with a charge.. but other then that probably not..

you worry too much about everything..

like shit man.. do you even enjoy life?

that would be a resounding, NO.

 

[jack sparrow]

Just go booze it up with some fattys. Tomorrow is another day.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

that would be a resounding, NO.

that is sad in itself, life is not all about sex.. and women and poon..

although it is a big happy part of it.

 

[calveless wonder]

c*nt of an alter, i cant believe i fell for it for so long

he's real dude...just *that* clueless. i blame christianity

 

[samoth]

i blame christianity

TITCR

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

he's real dude...just *that* clueless. i blame christianity

mothafucka don't blame christianity that's just ignorant.. shit..

I believing in god.. I'm not a christian I'm actually anti religious..

but seriously.. I went to a catholic schools where there were alot of christians..

catholic girls rock.. please don't blame an entire religion for healothers flaws..

thank you..