I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[H_T_]

You guys really raised some good points. As far as seeing it earlier, yes I got glimmers. We have been together for a year now. I made a BIG mistake by overlooking lots and handing over my life to let some guy take care of me. DUMB life lesson #1. I met him the same month that my mom died, and I was sort of emotionally exhausted from taking care of lots of things. It's hard to explain in short order, but he promised me the world and delivered it for several months. Then, little cracks in the armor started showing (including a really bad alcohol problem). It began with emotional abuse, then isolation, then pushing, shoving, and finally to an all out attack. It is difficult to explain, but when you live with someone like that, you sometimes just try to follow behind them and make everything perfect so that everything is calm.

Anyway, it was the first time in my life that I handed the reigns of my life over to someone else to take care of me. It was dumb. I'm trying to fix it now.

Hey, HT, how you doing, Priscilla? ;-)

i have explosive diarrhea & other than me getting the flu from some asshole who doesn't know how to wipe properly, i'm great....

 

[gotmilk]

What did he do to his first wife?

 

[hotzie]

LOL....I don't even want to provoke him now.

i have guns , for the right price he can disappear.

 

[PICK3]

i have explosive diarrhea & other than me getting the flu from some asshole who doesn't know how to wipe properly, i'm great....

thanks for sharing

 

[digimon7068]

he locked me out and i was trying to get in. So he threw a full length mirror through it and then grabbed my wrists and was pulling on me. I thought my face was going to go in.

the level of violence that you are describing should not be taken lightly. . .i know that you're not taking it lightly. . .but, i can't stress it enough. . .i've seen shit like this continue to escalate. . .he thinks that you belong to him (as others above have indicated). . .if you don't have something to protect yourself, i'd seriously consider purchasing something. . .as much as people are anti-gun, sometimes it CAN save your life when the police aren't there to save it for you. . .if you don't already have one, consider it. . .and if you get one, get trained. . .the NRA and other organizations offer excellent courses. . .be safe.

 

[H_T_]

i have guns , for the right price he can disappear.

lol, Hotzie's a magician!

 

[digimon7068]

Btw heatherae I am still single and availlable

. . .my boy CO B. . .always trolling. . .gotta love ya. . .

 

[hotzie]

lol, Hotzie's a magician!

this is me at one of my shows.

 

[Spartacus]

Aren't you married?

I'm so confused.

yeah she was doing some chicken counting
and they didn't hatch

 

[PICK3]

What did he do to his first wife?

They haven't found all of her yet?