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I broke up with bf/ I'm back

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My goodness! Thank god you're OK! Hope you got a few kicks, knees, elbows in..

At least you found out how he really is before marrying the bastard..

T-Matt
 
WTF Heatherae??? I hope you have somewhere safe to go where he can try nd get himself under control.

That is F'd up. GJohnson hit it on the head that was pretty violent. And like Stilleto said I dont care if she is the Biggest Bitch on the face of the planet he has the option to walk away. I highly doubt she had a gun to his head mad or not its domestic violence and he needs to be prosecuted so the next person hopefully has a chance and if it happens again and they eventually find a pattern they can put him away and protect the rest of society from his anger.

Btw heatherae I am still single and availlable but I will save the hitting on you for later. Go get safe for now
 
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Smurfy said:
I understand and agree what you're saying about taking personal responsibility for your one's own actions within the relationship that were unproductive or harmful to that relationship.
From my perspective, no person deserves to suffer physical harm or abuse. To me, there's nothing that justifies that behavior. Well, except self-defense.
you can hurt far worse with words
when "they" frustrate me I give them the silent treatment
even worse if they love you
 
You guys really raised some good points. As far as seeing it earlier, yes I got glimmers. We have been together for a year now. I made a BIG mistake by overlooking lots and handing over my life to let some guy take care of me. DUMB life lesson #1. I met him the same month that my mom died, and I was sort of emotionally exhausted from taking care of lots of things. It's hard to explain in short order, but he promised me the world and delivered it for several months. Then, little cracks in the armor started showing (including a really bad alcohol problem). It began with emotional abuse, then isolation, then pushing, shoving, and finally to an all out attack. It is difficult to explain, but when you live with someone like that, you sometimes just try to follow behind them and make everything perfect so that everything is calm.

Anyway, it was the first time in my life that I handed the reigns of my life over to someone else to take care of me. It was dumb. I'm trying to fix it now.

Hey, HT, how you doing, Priscilla? ;-)
 
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