Human Target. Something I've learned about spouse abusers

[layinback]

What did I do wrong?
I'm sorry.
I deserved it.

ding ding ding!!! you got it.

 

[puddlemonkey]

you go play with pick3....the grownups are talking.

Sorry but I already used that one earlier today, minus the Pick3 of course, I don't think about him 24/7 like some.

 

[layinback]

Sorry but I already used that one earlier today, minus the Pick3 of course, I don't think about him 24/7 like some.

well anyway this is a HETEROSEXUAL thread. you will find it of no interest.

 

[Cucumber_Jones]

Who's Barry Badrinath?

 

[heatherrae]

we are always attracting people to validate what we already believe about ourselves. "victims" need "big bad wolves" and big bad wolves need victims. lots of ppl look around at the life they CREATED and blame everyone else. yes these people grew up in some kind of dysfunction and they are recreating a semblance of their childhood. it is not always so overt. listen for the spouse bashing an abusive ex. dead give away. this person attracted that abusive spouse. dig a little deeper and you will see the cracks in the "victim". these ppl need each other. the insanity lies in their lack of perspective and inability to change."oh you dont understand, i had nothing to do with this. i had no idea he was abusive" is a commonplace statement with these types. indeed they didnt know anything at a conscious level because ALL of this is happening subconsciously. this will be offensive to some folks but it is true.

I disagree. If a woman dates a guy and leaves when he gets physical and has never before and never again ends up with another guy like that, then how do you say that she sought it out and needs it?

I think that is blaming the victim at its finest.

 

[digimon7068]

any of those pussies need to come spend a weekend at my place and let my future wifey handle them, she may be 5ft tall but as a large animal vet she is strong as fuck and has tools to remove testicles

my wife's from west-by gawd-virginia. . .if i ever laid a hand on her in anger, i'm sure she'd pour gasoline on my ass and set me on fire. . .hoopie girls don't play that shit

 

[layinback]

I disagree. If a woman dates a guy and leaves when he gets physical and has never before and never again ends up with another guy like that, then how do you say that she sought it out and needs it?

I think that is blaming the victim at its finest.

HR, there are anomalies. anyone can misjudge character and wind up with a nut job. i was not referring to that. i was speaking of repeat offenders, of folks who have patterns of abuse and the ancillary behaviors. sane people leave at the first sign of abuse.

 

[heatherrae]

HR, there are anomalies. anyone can misjudge character and wind up with a nut job. i was not referring to that. i was speaking of repeat offenders, of folks who have patterns of abuse and the ancillary behaviors. sane people leave at the first sign of abuse.

yeah, okay. Makes sense.

 

[Sub-Zero]

any of those pussies need to come spend a weekend at my place and let my future wifey handle them, she may be 5ft tall but as a large animal vet she is strong as fuck and has tools to remove testicles

cool let me get those so i can remove girlies ovaries with them and not get em pregnant when i bust in them without a condom

 

[Sub-Zero]

http://www.pbsanimalhealth.com/cgi-...ex.html?L+scstore+xntb0802ffce29ce+1187467627

is that legal?